What We Know: G-Spot and Ejaculation

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Razzy

I am a woman who ejaculates quite a bit during sexual play. Lately I am at a loss about how to handle the "sheet" problem. Waterproof matress protectors tend to make my partner and I sweat in sleep, and I don't own a washing machine so I can't do laundry daily. I'm worried that I'm ruining my comfy pillow top matress. Though my squirts don't have much odor my bed is starting to get a little funky Any ideas of good products or tactics.
Thanks!!

Put some towels under you.

[d rat]

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[sex4mom]

I've tried to find my G-spot and haven't yet ...still having a blast trying, though! Anyway, I've discovered that the only time I squirt all over and repeated over and over is when my husband cups his hand over my whole ****, usually with his middle finger on my clit and rubs it all up and down really fast. It's instant melting for me. I just fall apart, legs give out and I cum all over the place. I highly recommend trying it anyway. It might work for other women. Maybe my G-spot is on the outside of me somewhere?! I'm just thrilled to have a husband who totally gets off on me getting off. Good luck!

[dlb]

Most of my partners have experienced female ejaculation during coitus, some more frequently than others. One even experienced it during cunnilingus. From personal observation and talking with my partners as well as published scientific information we have come to the conclusion that female ejaculation is basically undistinguishable from urine. So far I have not read anything from the scientific community that states that it IS urine, but I am not afraid to make that statement. I have absolutely no qualms about admitting it.
I like knowing that I am able to **** the piss out of a woman, and that's what I plan to do when wifey gets home!

[raez]

Ok, so how do you know the difference between ejaculatory fluid and pee? My pee is quite light colored and doesn't really have a strong smell because I drink quite a lot of water and because of my eating habits. I think I may have ejaculated during g-spot stimulation once but I really couldn't tell...I get such a strong urge to pee during stimulation. I just wasn't able to tell for sure what it was the came out. Anyone who has experienced female ejaculation have any info on what the fluid is actually like?

[dlb]

never bothered to catch any in a container, but colorless to very light yellow, like urine.

[dancingdoc2]

G-spot stimulation can involve the Skeens glans and it is believed that these evolve from the same tissue as the Prostate. The ejaculate should be clear or slightly cloudy.

As for the urge to pee. This is often a false signal that can best be ignored particularly if you empty your bladder beforehand. Just push through that urge and enjoy your orgasm. This happens quite a lot in women who are just learning to masturbate and once they make the connections from the nerves in the clitoris and the pleasure center of the brain, the urge generally goes away. Unless or until it does, just continue on and you'll find your orgasm on the other side.

[Brandye]

I am not a squirter, nor have any of my female partners experienced female ejaculation. In fact no woman with whom I am close enough to discuss these things has experienced ejaculation. That does not mean it is not real; it simply indicates that many of us do ejaculate.

Doc cites the currently accepted medical theory (there are others) that the Skene's glands are the source of female ejaculate. The stuff I have read on the subject makes a point that female ejaculate does not smell like urine. This would make sense if the source is Skene's. In many women the Skene's glands are "peri-urethral""
meaning their openings are located beside the urethral opening. It is also known that some women have additional openings into the urethra between the bladder and the outside. This would mean that the ejaculate does travel a short distane in the urethra. It also opens the possibility that in some the ejaculate is a mixture of Skene's ejaculate and urine. We really have more medical questions than answers on female ejaculation.

As for the urge to pee: Stimulation of what is called the G-Spot is pressing against the anterior wall (front side) of the vagina a few centimeters inside. This means that stimulating the G-Spot is also pressing against the urethra and squeezing and releasing the channel for urine to leave the body. This, predictably, creates the urge to pee. Most women who do have their G-Spot located experience the urge commonly and frequently during the exploratory stage. My g/f and I have located ours in one another but the search was long and resulted in each of us runnung to the WC many times during exploration. And we are each well schooled on that part of the body.

Most women do embarassingly experience the release of of other body fluids during sex a time or so during their lives. Gas from the rectum and urine are the two biggies. We are usually terribly embarassed but that is how we are put together and all the muscles on our nether region are involved in sexual response.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I and many other women in my social circle, do know exactly where our G-Spots are and we do ejaculate.

The vagina is an open environment and certain secretions are necessary to ensure its continued good health. Brandye can help with this part, but this is my understanding. Female ejaculate is the more of less uncontrolled release of these secretions in response to stimulation. The flexing of the muscles in sexual response combined with the pressure of the partner's hand or penis, or toy and there you have it.

The 'urge to urinate' is the key point. Most women are far too embarassed to ask or to release at this point so they stop, not knowing that a huge orgasm is waiting for them if they simply relaxed and let it come. And some of their partners have no idea how to assist.

According to one of my men who is a master of the art. Feel gently on the roof of the vagina for a soft spongy area that has 'goosebumps' or a kind of 'washboard' feel that gets increasingly 'goosebumped' or 'washboarded' as her excitement mounts. Using a palm upwards fingertips curled up posture press gently upward while also moving your entire hand back and forth. Caress and softly murmur encouraging words and keep at it, varying the pressure until you find the amount that works for her. Increase your speed slightly until she does ejaculate. After she ejaculates, wrap her in your strong arms and give her big bear hugs and cuddles.

Be advised that these kinds of orgasms tend to invigorate women. She will want more.

[Brandye]

Spot on, Evil. I have read and had the rough spot description many times. Eva and I located one another's long ago and do regular manipulation but neiother of us has the rough patch. Message: these things differ woman to woman.

The secretions of the vagina have two sources. The uterus (menstrual flow, mainly) and through the vaginal walls similar to sweating. The believed source of ejaculation, Skene's gland, have their openings into the urethra or beside the urethral opening.

I agree that women's embarassment affects our sexual enjoyment. How often do we want to release some air but do not and, thereby, prevent our own orgasm? I have. With woman love we tend to be more open than with men. But, then, two women are sticking anything important into one another.

I think Evil is saying relax - as did Doc. No orgasm is possible if we do not learn to let go. And if the bed gets wet, change the damned sheets.