can a girl be to tight?

[jonnyonaleash]

the girl im with rite now gets sore from having just one finger in her...and its not that easy getting even that in, even if shes really wet. is that abnormal? and if it is (or even if its not) is there any way of making her more...acomidating without streatching her permenately?

[Brandye]

We all are born virgins. Life experiences can loosen us up or not. Every woman will be a bit different but with early teens, tightness is not unusual. She will learn to deal with it. Not much you can do.

[yuna5]

i was so tight my first and second time the guy could only get 1/2 way in. so i thought i was a half virgin. no, i wasn't a virgin, that was some messed up thinking i think. well, i took it upon myself to remedy that problem by buying kyjelly and slathering it on my guys member. it slipped all the way in. so lubricants are your best friend at first.

[BigKahuna]

I can't remember it for the life of me, but there is a "syndrome" that some women have that make it SUPER painful to be penetrated... Its really rare from what i remember, but if it doesn't get better, she may want to see her doctor about it.

If one of your fingers is too much, i would suggest starting with one of her fingers, which i'm guessing is going to be smaller then yours... if she isn't ok with that, then a super thin dildo or vibe could do the trick...

good luck

[Brandye]

Kahuna,

You are tlking about vaginismus. Does not sound like it here.

[jonnyonaleash]

Originally Posted by Brandye

Kahuna,

You are tlking about vaginismus. Does not sound like it here.

actualy...it may be. i looked it up and alot of what weve been experiancing is very similar to what they described. (even the thin tampons hurt her" obviously im not going to be jumping to any conclutions but you know...its something to concider. they say its a psychological problm more than anything, witch ive notice to be true in my case too. im thinking im just going to take it as slow as i have to and keep her compleatly relaxed and reasured...see what happens.

[Luvs2plzU]

my good gawd!! it's okay to get up to speed with sex...but for the love of geezuz...use some sort of spell checker!!....

[jonnyonaleash]

Originally Posted by Luvs2plzU

my good gawd!! it's okay to get up to speed with sex...but for the love of geezuz...use some sort of spell checker!!....

wow, thanx. your really helpfull. im glad you decided to be such a productive member of this forum... does it make you feel beter about yourself being an ass? let me guess...your the guy who joined so he could check up on the "penis size 101" posts. insecure bastard. i have no idea why you even waisted your time posting if thats all you had to say. kuz personaly i would use a spellcheck if i really thot people like you were even worth the time.

[Luvs2plzU]

Yep your right...I was a bit harsh about the spelling test...actually as I rethink it...there should be MANDATORY IQ level for people to have sex...because Lord help them if something go wrong and they get pregnant, neither of them would be able to properly fill out an employment form, to get gainful employment and support the "child"...

[Browser]

Originally Posted by Luvs2plzU

...actually as I rethink it...there should be MANDATORY IQ level for people to have sex...

Half the time I'll agree to that. The other half of the time I'll want to crucify that argument :P

Here's why:

Do we really need to get the government involved? They have enough crap to deal with already. What standards do we base it on? The same standards as the drivers' tests? Those are a joke in most states.

Second reason. It's tough luck for the kid, but sometimes people just have to deal with the consequences of their stupid actions. If I want to dance in front of a freight train, that's my prerogative. There is no way to prevent you from being a fool. If you want to go skydiving, same deal. If you don't want to wear your seatbelt while driving, same story. Who are we to prevent you from going out and screwing yourself over? This is America, the "Land of the Free" - you have the right to be a dumb****.

Edit: just realized how off topic that was from the original subject