How can i please her?

[warriors 1-on-1]

Im more of a giver than a taker and i like seeing the look on her face when she feels good. but the things weve been doing are starting to get old.I dont know anything more seein as how this is the first girl ive been with.It would be an enormous help if u could suggest anything at all.?!!! like:techniques or just simple things< that u ladies like a guy to do

[coveresid]

What have you been doing with your girlfriend? It is a little hard to offer suggestions unless we know where you have been.

[warriors 1-on-1]

well, weve done things like oral sex and ive fingered her.?

[warriors 1-on-1]

and just sex. (srry new with this message thing)

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by warriors 1-on-1

well, weve done things like oral sex and ive fingered her.?

Focus not on what you do but how you do what you do. The how can be varied considerably and the order of things mixed up for variety and spice.

In addition, consider romancing her beginning hours ahead of when you actually plan to get physical. You can begin with a wake up call, a phone call during the day that is short, sweet, and to the point, saying that you love her, are thinking about her and what the two of you (or just you) have planned for later that night. The phone call should say this and nothing more. The idea is to whet her appetite.

When you do become physical, begin differently than you normally do and spend no less than 3/4 of an hour on making out; more if possible. Get each other all worked up and in a frenzy of anticipation and tension, first, before ever getting to the foreplay.

Make love in a different place. If you cannot, something as simple as turning around on the bed so your heads are at the foot of the bed can be enough of a change to renew interest.

[warriors 1-on-1]

so mainly i need to focuse on how i do it not what i do and i should spend more time doing simple things to let her know i love her:like short sweet phone calls: i think i can manage getting physycal in different places or differrent ways too but how could i do something different during sex.

[coveresid]

There are so many different things to do with oral sex. Different techniques and just vary the way you move your tongue and lips on her labia and then working your way to the clit. I will sometimes spend time on her clit and finger her at the same time. You may want to shave each others pubic hair and then have oral. It is such a different feeling with no hair. It can also be fun to do it in other areas as mentioned above. Either other areas in the house or even outside. Some of the best bj's and oral on my partner have been outside. Not that you do this in front of other people, but in secluded areas. We have fun doing it on balconies when travelling or at home. Takes the right place to enjoy this and it is usually on a dark night. Even been able to enjoy it out on the boat. Great to have the sun on your naked body and have your lips on your partners vagina. Just a few quick suggestions.

[dancingdoc2]

An example:

Instead of purchasing an expensive vibrator or one of dubious worth, make your own! I venture to say that at one time or another, every guy has made sounds like a motor boat by expelling air from the mouth through the lips, thus allowing them to vibrate.

Gently touch your lips to the labia and clitoris while making the motor noise and your lips will titillate and tantalize handsomely. You can blow air silently or you can add sound by humming. The resulting sound will resemble the sound kids make mimicing an outboard motor, lawn mower, etc.

Changing the pressure, changing the rate of the moving air, changing the sound and pitch, etc., will change the sensations.

[warriors 1-on-1]

Thx it might really help!,So i could make her feel diff. sensations just by how i blow air through the mouth differently,and i could try and get her feedback on what she did and didnt care for.
Thank u again and i think i finally feel more confident about the week im spending with my g/f.!.!.!

[sexyboyLJ]

Just remmber the most importantist thing in a relationship is COMMUNICATION!!!!!!