a few questions regarding anal sex?

[dc2000]

Hey there,

This is my 2nd post. I got a question. I'm 17, my girlfriend is 16. Both our parents know that we are engaging in sex. We've been together for almost 2 and a half years. I have a few questions:

1) 80% of the time that me and my fiance have sex, i usually end up cumming within 2-10 minutes. While the otherd 20%, i can last for ever. Is this normal? Why do I cum so quickly. I mean I have been like this for the last 2.5 years.. I do find her VERY attractive, would that be a reason?

2) Anal: We were in doggy style and I ended up slipping it out of her vagina, and then slipping it into her ass.. she gasped for a second and within 10 seconds of me exiting her vagina and going for anal, it was all in. She moaned like never before.. What are the chances of her not stopping me because she wants to pleasure me? I honestly doubt she likes anal..

3) I had her cum once, and we were both in a kinky mood so I got down on her, she seemed to like it but now wants more of it. Any tips for newbs?

4) Anal: Back to question #2, after we finished with anal, I went back to vagina entry, without cleaning of my penis(it didnt seem like it was messy).. what could happen to her if I keep doing this. SHOULD I take a shower before re-engaging myself with her?

5) I have a fantasy, of how 3 guys(me being one of them of course) to be all over her. I want a guy's penis in her vagina, in her ass and her sucking the 3rd guy off.. Am I weird? I would love for her to get that treatment - where she wouldn't even have a chance to moan cuz there'd be cum all over her mouth, her ass and her vagina.

6) When fingering her, I deep all the way in (2-4inches in) and rub part of her inside(not sure what), she she responds insanely, she gets hot immediately.. Can this lead to orgasm if i continue for a long period of time?

7) How would she hit orgasm, i herd that if a girl feels like peeing while being fingered or whatnot, that she should, and it would end up being normal cum?? *IS IT SAFE TO LICK IT?*

8) When she does cum, she tastes soo good.. Is it safe to lick all of her fluids if the taste of them is sweet?

9) How can I get her to cum more, quicker?

10) She is the only person that I know that can deep-throat. She can take my 7-8" penis. I've NEVER herd of this before. Is it bad for her, why would she be able to and the next girl in line wouldnt(just a way to phrase it - no worries).

PS: Thanks to whoever can answer some of these questions.. Please respond and answer as many as you can.. Thank you!

[timai44]

Hi there,

For your first question, I would say that if you find your girlfriend very attractive then there's obliviously alot of stimulation going on there and that's a possibility of why you cum within a short period of time.

For your 4th question it is very important that you clean yourself up as you finish having vaginal intercourse and you are going to have anal sex as this could give her an infection if you switch back and forth.Just in case of any diseases I would wear a condom for anal sex.this is just my 2 cents for safety.


As far as having a 4some you are normal, and everybody has their fantasies of having such things happening to them.If you want it to happen ask her what she thinks first and see what she says.If you guys would be ready to act on it make sure you are comfortable with the whole thing because it can damage some relationship.If you guys are ok with it go ahead and enjoye
and also be safe.


For licking fluids I wouldn't say that there is something dangerous as most of us like to give oral sex. I like licking my partner's fluid.


cheer

[Sharde]

For some good tips for anal sex, checkout the following link...

Ten Rules For Anal Sex

First of all, I want to tell you that you should never, ever perform vaginal sex after anal sex without first cleaning off your penis with body soap... As a general rule you should always do vaginal sex first and finish with anal sex... Doing it the reverse way could lead to your girlfriend getting a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) due to various bacteria found in the anus... Men can get the same kind of infection doing anal sex "bareback" however, many still enjoy bareback sex and just clean well afterwards...

If you are concerned about a UTI for yourself, then use a condom... Using a condom will also prevent againt pregnancy as it is still possible for a "splash conception" to occur if your semen and sperm come into contact with her vaninal area after you pull out... Still there are many, both male and female, who enjoy the feeling of cumming anally and some women can have a great orgasm this way...

Please keep in mind that if you do not use a condom, you should both ensure that you are disease free of any kind as the absorbtive nature of the anal and intestinal tissues allow for an "easier" transmissve quality...

Though if you are both disease free, take care and are gentle with your anal penetration and thrusting and your partner is on birth control... Anal sex can and should be a safe and pleasurable experience for both of you...

I highly recomend the book "The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women" by Tristan Taormino... She writes from a female perspective with both males and females in mind... It is something that is a very good read for both men and women and does a lot to dispell the multitude of rumors and dangerous misinformation that is out there about anal sex... Dr. Jack Morin also has a good book called "Anal Pleasure And Health: A Guide for Men and Women" and is another great source of qualified research on this subject...

On your question about cumming early... You could have your girlfriend perform oral sex on you first and then after you cum, engage in forplay with her until you are ready to go again... Sex after "reloading" will make you last a lot longer during sex... Either that or masturbate several hours before you meet up with her... And yes, being turned on does lead to cumming early and should be a compliment to your girlfriend...

For your question about a 4 way... Just ensure that if you do that, you are all tested and are "clean" before you do this... Please remember that Herpes is a very bad disease and can be transmitted by oral sex and has no cure... You don't want something like that... Also make sure that you both are comfortable with the extra partners and everyone knows the rules before hand... Otherwise unexpected results can occur for both of you... Remember that you are dealing with other "real" people here and their emotions could and probably will get involved...

Good luck and I hope that helps you some...