Something good?

[Tito]

Hi,

Since i found this web site, and i read some thinga. Me and my girlfriend live in two different counties. I live in USA, she lives in Canada, i see her every two months because of school, i am not able to do so more often than that.

I would have a question. I was one of those who wouldnt pay much attention to the four-play, i was just trying to get it on. Of course us MALES

I have decided that i want to suprise her. I am going to Canada in a month. I want to do something, really good. So fat a good tip, is "Dont try to get it on right away, have some foreplay". I want something she is going to be like "WOW", can anyone help me?

Also i had a problem, two months ago. I didnt unrestand what was the problem and why. I would finish in 5 minutes, and i would feel bad for her, because she didnt get to the point to do the same thing, but four months ago, i could hold it, and i would finish about same time she does, or after. What is it that i might be doing wrong? And how can i stop it?

I would really appriciate if someone would help me on this issue. Thank you.

[vagabondprince]

this is my recommendation:

...of course that could just be because that's my specialty, but if you're having trouble making her cum from sex, do the job with your tongue beforehand and then get your pleasure.

[i just fall into the meadow]

a suggestion would be for you to masturbate to a point of orgasm before you go to see her, so that when you do have sex, you can last longer.

As far as making her say "wow" i would definately suggest some good oral sex before you guys get it on. That will always get me going.

[Cornelius111]

No harm in throwing some romance into it either. Go for some candles or flowers or something. Give her a nice massage beforehand, etc.

[lilly2279]

Yes, good suggestions so far..

Here is what I would love for a guy to do for me...

Go into her bedroom... take some tealight candles and put them all around and light them. Make sure the bed is all nice and made, or ready to lay on. Dim the lights and invite her in. Put a blindfold on her, lay her tummy down on the bed naked, of course, and give her a wonderful full body massage (not a painful one) with a nice oil (even baby oil would work fine), when you're doing her back, make sure to make touches with your fingers down her sides and "accidentally" brush the sides of her breasts. Make sure to gently massage her thighs too, and accidentally brush her private area (don't go straight for these parts, work her into a freaking frenzy where she is practically begging you to actually touch her where she needs it most.

Turn her over, give her the same treatment on the front. Once she is wriggling around and ready, start kissing and licking her gently, neck, on down to her sweet spot, tease her for a while then just go at it. there are all kinds of tips on here about oral sex, so be sure to read those and get some tips.

Good thing about her having her blindfold on, you can masturbate a bit sometimes, but don't cum - that will help you last longer too.. Also cumming before you meet her will help too. The horses won't be quite so "at the gate" when you get into things.

good luck!