Girlfriend has trouble orgasming.

[Floyder]

Ok, I need help. I have been dating a girl for a little over a year now. Problem is, my girlfriend has a lot of difficulty cumming. In the time we've been dating, I think I may have made her climax, five or six times tops, all from sex. We have good sex, and generally I don't think much about it, since she says "I'm the best she's ever had." However, occassionally she does seem dissapointed that she can't cum. I go down on her, and finger her often, and while she enjoys it, she has never peaked from it. Anyway, I'm running out of ideas. We talk about it occassionally and I think it kind of bothers her, and I just don't know what to tell her. We bought her a vibrator a while back; one of those little clit stimulator things. She was able to orgasm a couple times with it in the beginning, but she hasn't even been able to make herself cum in a while.
Any ideas? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

[camman]

look not a pro or anything but i think u could try mixin it up
maby ur odin the same thing with ur toung
anyway try fingerin and lickin the clit at the same time maby playaround with here hipps and ass with the other hand

Also ask her how she wants it done. U dont have to do it like a little wossy eather. if u tell her in a provoitive voice: tell me now , how do u want me to work ya. tell me what u want tell me how much u want it how hard ya want it.

U just sayin that might turn her on more and help u achive ur goal . Also she might open up more and tell u more things thinkin its what turns u on.

[Brandye]

You do not give her age nor experience, either of which could be important. You do give an important insight into attitude. You do not give her orgasms. Those are her responsibility, not yours. You can help or participate but not "give" orgasms.

About one-quarter of all women never, or very rarely, experience orgasms. About fifty percent of us rarely experience orgasm from penile thrusting. So she is not abnormal.

The best practice is masturbation. She learns what works and what does not. Whilst this cannot be transferred directly to you, she will know what to ask for or how to move herself.

I have known many women who take years, and sometimes a couple children, before they really learn what an orgasm is. That does not mean sex is unsatisfactory, just that orgasm in the woman is not as automatic as in men.