Rough Turn ons

[flapjack]

I've looked all over this site and all the topics on how to turn on a girl are gentle and such. My girlfriend is rather hard to turn on, she really likes is when I'm rough and take control, she likes:
1. getting her butt grabbed (really hard)
2. when i push her up against a wall and make out with her.
is there any girls like their men to take control who could help me out?

[mspersia82]

I need to be touched gently sometimes but I LOVE it when my man is aggressive and takes control. I love to be dominated, pushed up against the wall, have my hands pinned above my head, etc. What do you need help with exactly? You can still do it rough as long as you are hitting the right spots. Pounding is not necessarily key.

[txchic87]

I am the same way, I like to be dominated. It gives me a rush like no other to know that my guy is in control and HE is doing ME. Throw me on the bed, rip off my clothes, and pin my hands above my head... thats a great start right there.

[Giggles]

Major turn on: A guy that knows what he wants and knows how to go after it! Yes indeed! I like to be handled a bit rough often. Its a nice change from the ever so slow and gentle.
And it doesnt have to go into physical handling either. If Im just "TOLD" what to do... example: "Take of your clothes, NOW!" or I walk into the bedroom and find my naked boyfriend standing there "Suck me!" Yep, thats a turn on! Thats aggressive enough for me and he didnt need to get physically rough.
Spank my ass, pull my hair, pin my hands above my head, position me where wanted and often..... all those are nice ways of getting my attention aggresively and have been major turnons.

[badguy1999]

mine, btw if you spank her really hard she will like it, but i mean hard so she will have hand prints 3 hrs later

[crazyinlove]

I totally love being dominated, as well. I love playing hard to get, and then my boyfriend will spank me hard and I just go absolutely crazy. I also love it when my guy just stares at me in a public place and then comes up, firmly presses up against me and plants a few on me, and then squeezes my ass hard. LOVE IT!

[dancingdoc2]

Here is an approach to this that should be considered. Rough sex can be a turn on or an -off, all depending upon the person and the situation. I prefer to use the movie approach in which illusion plays an important part of what is perceived.

It isn't necessary to pound, or hit, or to otherwise be rough. What is important is that the illusion is presented. So, rather than spanking hard, go through the motions and pull the punches so to speak. If the man wants to shove his woman up against a wall, then do so, gently, albeit with the illusion of being rough and forceful.

[artemisjd]

dancing doc is right. Depending on the girl you are with, some i've found like it really rough, others are more gentle and prefer the illusion as doc put it. The illusion is the safe way to go, where you arouse the erotic sense of danger in a woman without actually causing her the pain that may or may not arouse her further.

To note however, most women are very turned on by a firm, hard touch.

[youfool]

I love when my boyfriend takes control being dominated for me is a total turn on. The whole pushing up to a wall..yes sir. Spanking usually works and in bed when he holds my hands tight over my head.