Pleasing her too much?

[Tilston]

me and my girl have been together about a year and we were having sex before we were even dating. at the start i kinda sucked at sex but now im on fire and we seam to do nuthin but have sex and the realtionship is dominated by it.

do you think pleasing a girl to much is bad? cause we both agreed that we was only in the relationship for one thing because it was so good (were very honest with each other), and all other aspects of a relationship is gone!

-what you think! please!

[demonbuttercup]

well i don't see a problem if you both agree that its only a sexual relationship.
i mean if you aren't looking for anything different and you both are cool w/ it then go for it.

[thetease13]

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Quote[/b] (demonbuttercup @ Mar. 27 2004,19:04)]well i don't see a problem if you both agree that its only a sexual relationship.
i mean if you aren't looking for anything different and you both are cool w/ it then go for it.

ditto.

i mean, if that's all you want, well, go for it. have fun.

[nodoubt16pb]

hmm yeah... just have fun for now and don stress over it till it needs to be stressed over cuz someday it might not be so great hmm.. yeah so just have fun

[WallyLlama]

I forgot the question: is this about pleasing her too much or is about too much sex in the relationship?

I seriously doubt that it's possible to "please her too much" (unless, of course, you're not getting any pleasure back).

Part of me wants to say it's also not possible for there to be too much sex in relationship, but... as others have suggested, it doesn't take long for the sex to become the basis of the relationship. Nothing wrong with that, either, but it won't make for a long term relationship.

I also tend to take the position "if you're worried about it, it's a problem." (One of the problems MIGHT be that it's preventing you from finding someone who offers more.)

Wally