How to make a girl cum?

[jeff]

hi folks... it werid, i finger my g/f for like 30-45 min and she never cums... what makes a girl cum? do girls cum? it makes me sad i can't please her

[oberon]

Well, not my area of expertise, but I have a suggestion. *Why not ask her? *All women, like all men, are different. So different techniques "work" on different people.

And when I say "ask" that can take many forms. *From having her just try to tell you what she likes to actually showing you how she masturbates herself. *One of the best ideas is for her to place her hand over your's and guide you.

In case you might be interested, this works for you too. *You can guide her hand in how you like to be touched. *You know, pressure, speed. *All the things that are specific to an individual.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

hmm... when i used to get fingerd... *strange.. i don't now.. loloh well*. but yea, i never really would get off, it would just make me all.. horny and stuff and want sex.. but.. i enver really would cum from it.. but... touching the clit on the otehr hand.. Oooie :P

jamie

[LittleFury]

Yo're asking wrong people. You gotta ask her yourself. Each girl is different, so something that could work for me might not work for her. Best way is to ask her yourself. Also, you can always check out other posts and the main site. I know there must be an asnwer to your questions somewhere there as well.

[demonbuttercup]

my advice
when you are fingering her kind of use your palm to massage her clit at the same time.
now if my b/f is fingering me then he starts kissing my neck and sucking on my nipples.... WOW
thats the stuff right there lol.

[jeff]

OK! thanks for your help every one!