Help Please!!!! Addiction!!

[NoGloveNoLove]

Oh man, since the last time my girlfriend had her period, weve been having sex with out a condom. Ive been pulling out and etc. I want to go back to using them for pregnancy risk. I just cant! I tried and its horrible! She hates it too!! What do I do!!!!!

It feels 150% better with out a condom! I dont know what to do! We both want to keep not using them!

Birthcontrol pills arent the answer, she cannot have them because most of her family has had problems with it and etc.

Suggestions?! anyone?!?!

[demonbuttercup]

well no matter how good it feels its not really worth the risk in the long run
even if her some of her family has had problems it doesn't necessarily mean she'll have trouble w/ BC pills.
theres are 20-30 different formulas out there... which means theres probably at least one that would work for her. im on the new ortho tricyclen lo... it has low doses of hormones so it doesn't make you all wacky. she'll never know if she's not a candidate unless she tries.
plus theres the shot, the patch, and other methods.
in the mean time you should at least use some sort of spermicidal insert
even if you are pulling out that would cover the risk of sperm in precum etc.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Hmm, well maybe its time for birthcontrol, cause... hun im in the same thing.. well.. not really, but i dont like condoms now.. with Tyler.. like they cause almost an irritation for me.. but get on some BC..*ur gurl*.. and well that should help alittle more..


jamie

[Rawbob]

NoGloveLove....do you think her family would accept a grandchild easier than allowing your GF to have birthcontrol?

Anyway..if u refuse to wear a rubber, then you have to look at things like IUD's, the Sponge and other forms of birthcontrol. But, like condoms, it require you both to be prepared for sex. If you both agree that rubbers are no longer an option, then you need to do the mature thing and take responsbility for managing your birth control decisions and options.

Stop thinking about how GOOD it feels, and think about what you can do that will allow you to keep having sex, while reducing the chances of getting pregnant.

I know this may fall on deaf ears, and i've been there buddy, i know the rush of emotion and adreneline when you have unprotected sex....that said.....all i can say is RAW SEX FOR THE SAKE OF HOW IT "FEELS" IS NOT WORTH 18 YEARS OF UNWANTED PARENTHOOD.

I don't know how old you are, if you're in highschool or college, or working..but trust me on this.....15 minutes of sexual bliss will quickly fade when you find yourself having to work 60 hours a week to pay your child support or to take care for a new young life.

When you drag your ass home at the end of a long day of work - at your second job - the last thing you will be thinking about is how good your cock felt in your girlfriends pussy 3 years prior.

Sorry for ranting....but please reconsidder getting some sort of comprehensive birth control!

[demonbuttercup]

P.S.
just follow your own advice.
by that i mean your screen name lol
no glove? no love!

[NoGloveNoLove]

i know... but her family has had problems with bc pills etc. im just gonna have to put my foot down, and a condom on!!

thanks guys!

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

ok first, everyone usally has some form of "problem" with bc.. but she can go ask the doctor and try a bunch of them out to find the right one for her.. and probally when her family had problems was lol like in the 70's.. when they were young *her parents* or something.. happend with my mom mind you i do have problems with bc too, but im getting used to it and its going away.. i think its because my body wasnt used to it.. well thats what it is im sure.. but serious. she should go get on some bc even if you use a condom.