Naughty

[N-I-C-K-A-TINA]

OK my girl and I are really intamite she loves the sex and so do I. My question is how can I get her into beign more naughty, she loves it when I take control of her but I would love it if she did that to me. This may be a stupid topic but I am just curious as to what other people have done to spice their relationships up.

[nrgummybear]

LOL...this is a good topic 4 me..... I am a woman....who has a great fondness in being naughty.....and its totally opposite for me im the leader and i want my man to lead sometime.... ....I really wouldn't know how to get him to do stuff like that....But the best way for a female***(this verys in what woman your with)***...Maybe while you guys are getting agressive wisper things into her ear **along the lines of what you want or tell her to do whatever she wants*** i really wish i could help,,,and i hope i sort of do!!!!......
......Maybe shes just a little shy....or she just loves how you do it...and doesnt wanna change it just tyry diffrent things and maybe bring it up to her and tell her that you would really like her to be more agressive.........if shes comfertable with it......She probably wont mind..... .....Maybe show less agression and see how she reacts all people are diffrent and this is only *MY* opinion......But i hope it works out for you......... ............. HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!



P.S.I really woudl liek to know about this to so dont thinki its a stupid subject...I WANNA KNOW THE SAME THING!!

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

ME TOO!!! i wanna know how to get Tyler to open up to "new ideas" lik ehow to go about it.. i know talking.. or.. DOing.. but LOL what are some ideas?

[N-I-C-K-A-TINA]

I never really thought of whispering stuff into her ear but its a good idea and I am gonna try it. Is it bad for a guy to want there woman to take control of them or is this just my fetish?

[demonbuttercup]

no its normal
my guy would like me to be more aggressive and take more control but im a pretty shy person.
one thing he did to get me to "talk dirty" in bed was that he would make it so that i would have to say out loud what i wanted.
he would tease me but if i wanted oral or penetration i had to vocally "ask for it" usually w/ some choice words..lol.
that helped me open up and be more vocal.

[Extra-Titanian]

My advise would be to just tell her that you want her to take control sometime, communication IS the best thing in a relationship after all.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

oh i kn ow, but sometimes.. you just feel like a total ass.. when it comes to this topic, i know i do.. lol cause you feel just stupid, and they might feel that way, assuming your going to laugh at what they want.. so thats why im havin a hard time.
peace

[N-I-C-K-A-TINA]

I like what your boyfriend does demonbuttercup I think I am gonna try that! Only if she will listen hmmmmmm?