Enjoying pleasing women...

[Teknics]

Phew... hey guys. It's been awhile... but hey, I'm back in a relationship now. I didn't really take a break... it just seemed no girls were interested in me for awhile. Anywho, I've got a Q or a statement, either/or. Well.. so my new girlfriend. I've made her O twice.. in 2 days... and it's great ego boost for me and for her I can only imagine. But the thing is.... I really LOVE pleasing her... the look on her face... it's just SO great. Even if she's about to please me I turn it around and end up making her O. Then she lies there in pure bliss for awhile... it's so cool. But yeah... well I like being pleased too but... I don't know I like pleasing her. It seems kind of odd sure, but meh... what goes around comes around? Yeah. Well yeah I've found my past experience on this message board freakin PAYED OFF!!!! No doubt about it. In terms of paying attention to her neck and ears... HELL YES. She moans and gets sooo rowled up and stuff. It's very exciting. I do that for up to an hour... teasing very badly. Then just fingering her, with one finger, and palm over the clit, fingering the g-spot, I can make her orgasm in less than 5-10 minutes easily. It's great... and she's so worn out. Any advice? lol. I don't really know... maybe some new techniques or something cool to try, maybe some advice on how I can loosen up and allow it to be a give/take relationship... because I've heard if it's purely GIVE then people get mad... but maybe that's just if its that the person wants to recieve and doesn't? Sure I do, it's great to recieve... but pleasing.... wow. It's a big turn on and it brings people really close... girls deserve to be pleased guys. So freakin please them, all you can, with all you know, for as long as you love them!!!!!!

Tek

[wonderboy]

great post! bravo! you sound like a realy great bf

if your lookin for something to give you pleasure, try a 69, it's great fun.

or let her tie you up/blindfold you, she may love being in control!

have fun!

wonderboy

[thetease13]

ok, first off let me state i am female and am in a relationship with a male... but what i gonna say may help you some even though the roles are reversed.

my relationship is currently more of a give oral than a receive oral (it's just something he doesn't do...but i really think he's considering it) but i love giving him oral. *it pleases me and i always love to hear his heavy labored breathing and his "god that feels good". *it's a major turn on to me too.

i would like to receive one day but i'm not gonna pressure him or anything. *i'm not gonna get mad or angry or whatever at him if he doesn't do it. *i may hint on it from time to time that i would like it, but i leave it up to him. *he hasn't pressured me into anything (including the fact that he was my first. *he left that all up to me and made sure that i wanted him to be my first and that i was ready for it all.) and i won't do it to him. *so until then, i will still continue to give him head because it's something that I enjoy to do.

but um, as for advice. *well, i find that i give him more pleasure if i'm not thinking about what i'm doing. *i mean i know he's just happy that i have my my mouth there either way, but the less i worry about "how should i mix this up" or "what should i do next" the more he seems to get turned on and the more i get into it. *if i just treat it like it's something natural, like it's one of the blowpops i always have stuck in my mouth or something, i enjoy it more and he seems to enjoy it more.
so my advice? *don't really think about what you're doing. *don't put so much planning into it. *just.... do it.

[Teknics]

Great advice. And it's great to hear that your willing to work things through in a relationship; since I'm a teen so many relationships I see or have get messed up over misunderstanding or no communication or no will to do anything. Well, again, thanks for the advice!

Tek

[thetease13]

communication is the key to any good relationship.

yes it's true, it is hard sometimes to talk to your partner about sexual related stuff, but communication is still the key.

i'm only 23 and my guy is 18 years older than me (well, currently 17 but ya know) and so when it comes to sex, he's a been there done that person and knows what he likes and knows what he wants. *i on the other hand, i know what i like and i know what i want but it's all new to me. *i'm not as experienced as him. *he was my first sexual experience and he is the only person i've ever had ANY kind of relationship with other than just a friendship. but the catch is, we just both like to have fun, just fun in life in general. *so when it comes to communicating to each other, we joke about it.
so when trying to communicate, just be yourself.

[demonbuttercup]

its definetly great that you love to please your girl but if she trys to reciprocate... let her.
let her enjoy that feeling you are having of driving your partner crazy w/ pleasure.
giving pleasure and seeing how it turns your partner on is a big turn on for yourself. so let her do the same.
maybe just go back and forth teasing and pleasuring eachother till both of you just can take anymore lol
sometimes what my b/f and ill will do is ill lay there and he'll tease me by playing w/ my nipples, touching the kitty, kissing me etc... then all of a sudden he just roll over and lay on his back and pretend he's sleeping...lol.
thats my cue ill start teasing him. giving him kisses and stroking him etc.
then after awhile ill pretend im asleep
we go back and forth each time getting more intense.
like next he might move on to oral.. then ill do oral on him.
we go back and forth till we can't take it anymore and just go at it
its also fun to make sure you cover the persons eyes who is "sleeping" so they can't see what you are doing. adds fun to the mix
hope this helps

[Teknics]

Well problem solved... today I pleased her then she said she wanted to do stuff to do, and oh, did she ever. So yeah... then of course I had to please her again; so I did. But yes, thanks for the advice all; others should take it!

Drew