female masturbation

[Jacky234]

i have a question....
i jsut masturbated...and for the first time ever it actually felt good...i've had orgasms during sex before....but never by myself...my question...it felt really really great..but when i started to orgasm my pussy suddenly started to feel really really sensitive and i couldnt continue/finish touching myslef....does anyone know why this happened...like i couldnt completely orgasm, i had to stopped myself right at the beginning (of orgasm) thanks...)

[wifey]

I can't answer why...but do know what you were feeling. When I first started mastrubating I felt the same way, i.e. a little too overwhelmed with pleasure. Eventually I learnt a technique I call start-and-stop, where I control the sensitivity level and prolong my pleasure...don't know if anyone else experienced it too

[dancingdoc2]

> when i started to orgasm my pussy suddenly started to feel really really sensitive and i couldnt continue/finish touching myslef....does anyone know why this happened...like i couldnt completely orgasm, i had to stopped myself right at the beginning (of orgasm)

This is a common problem that has an easy solution. Many women report that their clitoris becomes to sensitive to touch when they become highly aroused. With men the problem happens after fan orgasm and is a combination of a chemical being released by the brain and over working of the nerves. It goes away in several minutes.

The solution for women is:
* to cover the clitoris and hood with the inner labia and massage or rub the clitoris indirectly through the labia
* to switch tactics and rub the shaft of the clitoris that is buried beneath the skin of the upper vulva between the folds
* to finger areas around the clitoris and to massage and gently tug and knead the labia

These indirect approaches will reduce the intensity yet let you continue to build your arousal and achieve an orgasm--or more. Give these methods a try and learn what workds for you when and then use them when necessary

Have fun!

[Lackadaisical]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

> when i started to orgasm my pussy suddenly started to feel really really sensitive and i couldnt continue/finish touching myslef....does anyone know why this happened...like i couldnt completely orgasm, i had to stopped myself right at the beginning (of orgasm)

This is a common problem that has an easy solution. Many women report that their clitoris becomes to sensitive to touch when they become highly aroused. With men the problem happens after fan orgasm and is a combination of a chemical being released by the brain and over working of the nerves. It goes away in several minutes.

The solution for women is:
* to cover the clitoris and hood with the inner labia and massage or rub the clitoris indirectly through the labia
* to switch tactics and rub the shaft of the clitoris that is buried beneath the skin of the upper vulva between the folds
* to finger areas around the clitoris and to massage and gently tug and knead the labia

These indirect approaches will reduce the intensity yet let you continue to build your arousal and achieve an orgasm--or more. Give these methods a try and learn what workds for you when and then use them when necessary

Have fun!

Now there is something I definitely needed to learn. Same thing happens to me...It's been years, but orgasms can still get to strong for me. My B/F and I will have to try this out...

[dancingdoc2]

Thank you for the comment. I'm glad I was helpful.

Now, GO GIRL!

[JustAnIllusion]

So I was having a similar problem and I tried what the Doc said but I still can't get over that last "hurdle" I guess you could say. It's like I lose control of my body and I completely tense and then I relax and I keep going but I still can't seem to finish.