Finishing the Job

[Niner89]

Me and my gf, we're both 17, have been dating for several months, and we've both never had a better relationship. We're also both virgins, but have both had some experience.

Long story short I want to give her an orgasm and have tried both by fingering and oral, I'll admit that I am not an expert but I do get great reactions from her, both physical signs during and her telling me I made her feel good afterwards. The problem is that I can't seem to bring her to an orgasm, this kind of frustrates both of us, she wants to show me how much she loves on a physical level along with an emotional one, and so do I. This however, is only a little problem and will in no way break this relationship I love this girl. She has never had an orgasm and won't masturbate so don't suggest that, lol.

Basically we talked about this, alot, because if i learned one thing from reading this site a lot is that communication is key. We agreed that we just need some time totally alone, no parents in the house at all, etc. Well thats my idea...so my question is has anyone had a similar experience? Can anyone offer advice or tips?

[LittleFury]

Ok...could be very very possible that you're just not doing it long enough. I'm serious. Example, for me it can last for over and hour, it will feel really really good, but nother near an orgasm. And then suddenly within a minute or so it build up and I have a very powerful orgasms. She might be the same way. Also, could be that her's are not as powerful that she misses them. Try doing it for longer, also make sure you're hitting all the hot spots there, and both of you need to relax and just enjoy it. If you are frustrated becuase it's been a few minutes or more and she still didn't orgasm, it's not gonna do you any good and will make it even mroe difficult. Also, enother suggestion, try getting her really really turned on before you move on to oral, tease and play around. You never know. Above all, enjoy the journey, cause thats what's very important, and no need to rush to the destination.

[kevin83]

I agree with that, i teased my girlfriend for about 1 and a half hours before i went anywhere near her vagina and within like 40 seconds of just fingering her and at the same time rubbing her clit, she had an orgasm. Teasing is a good way. Also, keep up the same thing on the same spot, one thing ive learned especially about my girlfriend anyway is that change isnt a good thing cause as your building up in one bit the minute you stop is like a break in mommentum.

Good luck

kev

[NoGloveNoLove]

i kissed my girlfriend from head to to toe, hard, soft, with tounge without.

When i finally put my fingers down there, she was very wet and almost begging!

She lasted but 5 minutes of fingering!