She's getting mad

[KaLiBaH]

Ok well...tonight me and my gf were fooling around and tonight I came, this is about after 2 hours of just fooling around and mutual masturbationa and crap...now here's the problem she got like real mad at me... i didn't understand why, i tried asking her and she kept saying you weak man or minute man, and like i didn't know what to say... but I really don't want to make her mad, she means the world to me. Now I could understand why she might think that she didn't get anything out of it but the thing is she doesn't let me go near her in that way (I was fingering her through her clothes). And well eventually I just rolled over and didn't know what to do, i started to cry lol pathetic I know, I'm so close to stop being intimate with her in anyway and i really don't want that ... should i look into lasting longer?? i'm so lost..help please ??

[demonbuttercup]

i would say its not your problem its your g/f. that was a very rude thing to say.
i mean how are you a minute man after 2 hrs of foreplay.
given you probably wont last 2 hours when you have actual sex but at least you didn't cum right when she touched you.
she needs to be more clear about what she's wanting out of these little sessions.
i mean if she's not letting you do much to her then what is she expecting to happen?
just approach her and ask her what her deal is. you have nothing to be ashamed about so don't be.
she's the one trippin'.

[KaLiBaH]

Ok i'll try thanks

[tripper420]

whhaaaat

lol im sorry but thats dumb..

after 2 hours she says that? after 1 hour id still tell her to shut up...u shoulda turned it around and told her you will last longer when she learns to put out more *

well i just think her comment was incredibly uncalled for......dont take it personally dude.. shes full of sh... ummm shes mean

id just tell her that 2 hours she should be happy, and if she wasnt bein such a prude she would get some action too, so until then quit bein a bitch *

thats just my thoughts...

[Tjdude]

Yep, that was very rude. Maybe this persons means a lot to you, but it's exactly that kind of dominant behavior the cause of many sexual and realtionship problems.
I had a similar problem long time ago with an ex-gf, she was so demanding in bed, that i was very tense all the time during sex and not enjoying it, because i was all the time thinking that i might not do as well as she would like, so then I started having problems like premature ejaculation, etc. That was very painfull, cause the more she demanded the less i could give her.
After some time we broke up, and later, after having sex with other women and not having any problem at all, I understood that the problem wasn't in me, but in the relationship with that g/f at the time, because never had any problems before and after being with her.
So, u need to talk to her, doesn't matter is she means the world and u don't want to make her mad, that's bs, if she means the world to you, you mean the world to her, and that it, and no one, NO ONE, should make less of you. Goo luck

[KaLiBaH]

Ok you guys rule thank you soooooo much for the advice