Worried about 1st time

[j692]

Hey all!
I'm officially going out with my girlfriend and when she comes off her period on thursday she wants to have sex. *

Only problem is its my first time with her and i ALWAYS get nervous on my first time.
and when i'm nervous, its not always easy to get an erection. *

I dont find myself to be very attractive and i'm always worried about what people will think about me.

Can anyone give me advice on how to stop being nervous? *
Its making me worry so much!!!!

Thanks everyone!!

[KaLiBaH]

I Have the same problem. Here's an idea when your GF comes over and when you guys get into the mood or whatnot ask her to take control over you (word it however you want) this will A) Give your Gf a power trip (girls love that :P ) B) Let her explore your body and make you feel , less nervous. Trust me it works and also take it slow oh and trust me again when that female hand grabs the crotch you will have no problem getting an erection :P


Happy Humping \m/

[archer]

that's the worst thing that can happen cos when u get nervous ur whole body reacts, n the first thing that happens will be a loose erection. you cant do anythign about it wen ur nervous. you have to relax yourself and have a mindset in you that u are comfortable and you find this girl very very attractive, and no matter wat happens ull still think this and that she will still love/like you.

Maybe this is a sign that mabye u arent ready for sex yet.