Do I orgasm??

[spazticjules3]

hi.. my boyfriend and i mess around all the time. but i dont think ive ever orgasmed. everytime i feel so close. but then i feel like ive gotta pee. i duno if thats how its supposed to feel or what. but in anycase, like sumtimes ill stop him because after me holding it in it starts to hurt. is it pee or is it me like cumming or what? please im so confused! could someone let me know if that pee-ing thing really is pee and why does it hurt and what will an orgasm feel like?? please help! thank you so much!

[Svetlana]

wow chick...that's cum..what does he do to make you cum. My boyfriend wants to make me cum but don't know how. What does he do to get you to that?

[nodoubt16pb]

I would suggest for both of you to go with the flow. You say it hurts what kind of hurt? Is it a good hurt or a sting or heavy unconfortablility? Finding out what hurts and seeing if it is normal can help to solve your orgasms for it might be something like a uti or soemthng like that so find that out and go to the doctors or just describe it here and someone will answer. Plus if he pushing too hard... then yes it probably would hurt you depending on how young you are and inexperienced. Just go with the flow and yes it does feel like you have to pee but if you let it go and just go with it then yuo will discover it is definitly not. To make yourself feel better try going pee before you know you will have sex. That way you can feel the difference... cuz you migh have actually had to pee *
But in any case... get checked if something hurts ALWAYS. Just go with it and it will come * hhehehehe ( i am so dirty minded i know
Also research the g-spot that is what makes the pee feeling get confortable with your g-spot and play around by youself if you never have discovered your g-spot

[HngLkAMouse]

Well... take my opinion with a grain of salt, because I am a male. I can only speak for my understanding of a woman.

There is a difference between an orgasm & Female Ejaculation. They can both happen simultaneously... one can trigger the other, but they are two separate things.

You can have an orgasm without ejaculation. And you will KNOW when you have one. They're kinda hard to miss.



Women all experience different types. Some from clitoral stimulation, some from g-spot (vaginal) stimulation, some from anal stimulation, breasts, neck, intercourse, oral sex, masturbation... the list goes on. Some women have orgasms just from THINKING about sex... with no physical stimulation whatsoever. Some (sadly) never experience it, or don't until later in life.

Talk to your partner about it. Let him know that you "think" you're getting close at times and want to try "letting go" the next time, but say that you are unsure what's going to happen and that you want to experiment with him. Get him involved. Let him know that although people "tell" you it's not "pee"... you're still self-conscious about it and would like his support in figuring it out.

Take a trash-bag and cut it's side & bottom to make a large plastic sheet place a large towel over that and place it under the bed-sheet. The towel acts as an absorbant and muffles the sound of the plastic bag a little. The towel & sheet can go right into the wash after and the mattress won't be soaked.

I actually made a purchase online of two large waterproof "sheets" for this purpose. When we know we're gonna fool-around, we "Get the sheet" and it's actually a 3" x 5" latex-rubber sheet with a felt-like surface on both sides, so it traps ALL liquids.

We can have our "good time" and when done, we fold the sheet, edges inward, and it goes to the wash. Bed linens and mattress are dry as a bone. I wish I had a link for you.

They are basically sheets used for incontinence (loss of bladder control) for the young or elderly. Some medical supply stores may carry them.

Good luck & have fun.