I want her to ejaculate

[IceSport]

ok... i know that she can ejeculat but she tells me that she doesn't want to infront of me because she doesn't think i can take it... i told her many times that i want to make her happy and i want her to just let it go... but she's still, i guess, afraid to cum when i'm around... and i'm sure i bring her *to that point more then once a day...

what can i do to prove to her that i can take it and to make her cum when ever she wants to?

and for the women... does it hurt when u hold it in? does it feel bad?

thanks
Icesprot

[Brandye]

Hey, Sport,

Female ejaculation is not a regular thing. In many, many years I never have. Women are entirely capable of orgasm, That does not necessarily mean they will spew juices. Your use of the term cum is interesting and very male. When a males has an orgasm (cums) he does ejaculate - except in rather rare instances. Biologically, he must deliver sperm and that is what he is doing. There is no biological need for a woman to ejaculate. Even among those who go on and on about the G-Spot and female ejaculation there is no agreement what is actually happening. Back to study hall.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Hmm ejaculate... i didn't reall yknow girls did that, they can "Cum" but it comes out more of a lubrication, hmm almost liek a slight secretion? if those are the right words.. im not sure. but.. i duno, that and...if she isn't comfortable say with you? fully yet, that could be why she doesnt want to "cum".. or orgasm, or hwatever it may be... maybe give her a bit of time, and just get her comfortable. and hunny, you can't hold it in.. lol

Jamie

[berger_2000]

my gf can make herself cum with using her thighs but not with fingers. i cant make her cum and i guess it worrys me cause i cant do it.