Period,Sex, Pain

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

alright, last night... me and my boyfriend were gonna do it.. lol anyhoo, but.. i was on my period.. and it wasn't there at the time... hadn't been for a few hours.. anyway... we thougth that was fine, talked about it.. and... were starting to go at it.. but down there was so senssitive... like... it hurt... and i mean hurt.. it burned. and i was wet, yes. He wasn't wearing a condom either.. would that have made a difference? also we'd been drinking, im not sure that really is a factor.. but.. still Why would it hurt so much? it hurt so bad, i stopped it.. i let it go on for a bit.. thinking maybe it would stop... but.. it didn't. so i stopped, and it hurt so much...i could barely walk, and i had to curl up in a ball... also.. i felt so bad, but he said it wasn't my fault.. and what not.. *sigh* i duno? im also on a new drug.. that.. DepoVera, or whatever... could that be a factor? i duno.. im so confused.
help?

Jamie

[LittleFury]

Hmmm, it sound like you were just pretty irritated down there. It can happen then you're on your period or even a bit after. It's nothing serious, if it only lasts a few days. And if you're irritated, sex can be pretty painful, even if you're really wet. I had that happen a few times. So hopefully it can help a bit. Try this. Take a shower, or just wipe pretty well there, then carefully put some soothing cream that is made especially for it. I use Vagesil, and I would go for regular strengh, since it's creamy and maximum strengh is kind of griny and cause of that didn't help as much. Put that one. Also, don't wear tight clothing or underwear, no things or g-strings. And at night, once you period stops for sure, just sleep naked, that could help. Before getting busy next time, check and see if you're still irritated, if not go ahead, but if you still look irritated or while trying it still hurts longer then just few moments, stop and keep using the cream and just give it a few days.