Orgasm is to painfull

[ick]

My wife comes to tears when ever I bring her to an orgasm. It's that painfull for her. Because of that she obviously has very little desire. To her sex means stress & pain. No relaxation at all.

Any other women have similar experiences or any ideas how to help it?

Thanx!

[demonbuttercup]

so its the actual orgasm that hurts?
ive never heard of that
ive heard of penetration hurting.
has she always been like this?
my advice would be for her to get to the doctor and get an exam
it could be something medically wrong.

here is some info i found on a site called
Adhesions.org
heres what one response was

There are a number of reasons why you could be experiencing these pains, adhesions is definitely one that I would consider, and perhaps endometriosis. Has any doctor ever suggested this to you? Either way, the only reliable way to find out what is happening is for a surgeon to look inside your abdominal cavity with a small camera. This is done by laparoscopy (key hole surgery). Once the surgeon has determined what the cause of your pain is, you can both sit down and consider your options.

The pain you are describing that is new, sounds similar to how I felt when my ovaries were attached to my vaginal wall, bladder, bowel & abdominal wall. That may sound impossible, but what it means is the adhesions have attached to something...such as my bowel, then grown around my ovaries and then attached to my vagina. The adhesions pull organs out of shape, or move them from where they should be. Our organs should "float" and don't naturally become attached to each other.

Adhesions can be caused by a variety of things, and all that information is found in another area of the Adhesions web site.

[ick]

Nope it's not the penetration it's the orgasm that is painful. We brought it up to the doctor a while ago but it was brought up as just lack of desire. We all pretty much decided it was lack of sleep.

This has been a hard thing to start to worry about being we had two kids two years apart. Basically 3 1/2 years of not sleeping thru the night added with breast feeding for 9 months with both.
Well they are 3 & 5 now & it's time. After the holidays I plan on setting up the appointment.


Thanx for the help!

-ICK

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

doctor time...., thats strange, give your wife a hug for me... thats too bad..
im not sure what it could be.. but, something isnt right.. and i don't th ink its the whole diisire thing..

jamie