Penis Size 101

[HngLkAMouse]

Guys... let's settle this once & for all.

Look at my user-name... it's HngLkAMouse... (Hung Like A Mouse)... It's somewhat tongue-in-cheek, but I really am 'small' for a fully-grown adult.

I USED to be self-conscious about it... but I've come to realize that there is SO MUCH truth to it not being an issue.

In my lifetime, I have been with enough partners that at the end of our 1st or 2nd act of lovemaking, they are breathless exhausted and ask "How the hell do you DO that...?" after I've made them have almost 2-dozen orgasms.

TRUST ME... if you can figure out a lot of different ways to stimulate a woman sexually, while making her feel desirable, beautiful, respected and show that you're not just there to pump her and dump your seed... then there's a WORLD of sexual fun for you that will make her forget what the heck size IS...!

Do you know how many G/Fs I've had over the years that had NEVER had a real orgasm with another guy...? Most of them never even knew about their G-Spot... I can think of at least 5-6 women that were shocked and almost collapsed in extacy when I stimulated their G-Spot and made them 'squirt'... which they had NEVER done before.

Now... do you think they cared about my less-than 5.5" penis after all that...?

nope!

Who cares...? the ACT is what's important and the moment you both create... NOT the size of your penis.

Trust me... get over it.

It has NOTHING to do with ability and EVERYTHING to do with a mentality of judging things by (mostly) irrelevant criteria.

[HngLkAMouse]

Okay... let me add to the other side of things.

There IS the fact that I've also been with women that had already had children and regularly used sexual toys on themselves. At their age, they were already so 'stretched-out' from:

- possibly just being 'large' down there
- childbirth
- HUGE sex toys that 'stretch' that area
- having been sexually active for a long time

The end-result was like shaking a stick in a trash barrel... it didn't feel that great for either of us... so, YES... there are times that size can AFFECT things, but we got around it and STILL had a fulfilling sex life.

Remember... not only do penises come in different sizes, but vaginal cavities can vary too.

[Paul]

Hey, I'm a new here... but have been lurking around awhile...

I'm 17, name's Paul... that's all you need to know

Mike, the reason girth is prefered is because a woman has more nerve endings in the first few inches of her vagina, so a wider girth means more stimulation for her.

Length is alright I suppose, but you better be careful you don't strike it off the pubic bone or whatever!

By the way if I'm wrong in what i just said... let me know

A good deal of time, care and attention during foreplay will make up for any lack of length or girth... oh and your better half will appreciate sex more if you take your time and don't just plough into her!

[demonbuttercup]

mike was asking since the average on the polls for wanted girth is around 4in
he was wondering why those girls said they preferred around 3 inches of girth or even smaller.

mike correct me if im wrong

[mike]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (demonbuttercup @ Sep. 13 2003,16:47)]mike was asking since the average on the polls for wanted girth is around 4in
he was wondering why those girls said they preferred around 3 inches of girth or even smaller.

mike correct me if im wrong

Yep, thats correct.

[Nebula]

my penis is abuot 5'5 and my girth is about 4' is this a decent size

[Caitshidhe]

I'm a newbie, and I've never had sex before, but as far as I'm concerned, a relatively average penis is good for the first time.

I would personally cringe from anything over 7 inches right now, but that's me, and I'm a very small person.

For those of you out there who are self conscious, please, don't be. Just take it slow, experiment, and learn how to use whatever it is you have been endowed with.

[StaTiC2488]

Well I have to say that from what you ladies are saying that I am in pretty good shape.

Length= a little shorter than 8 inches
Girth= about 3-3 1/2 inches

I am 15 years old and about 5'11

Would I please your needs or am I to small or to big?

[HngLkAMouse]

Again... not to sound too vague... but, it's like asking: "How much does a bowl of liquid weigh...?"

Well, gee... there are so many variables that a question like that does not have an answer without SPECIFICS. What size bowl...? is it a tiny bowl or massive...? What is the liquid...? is it light like alcohol or heavy like mercury...? Is the bowl ITSELF heavy like lead or light like plastic...? Is the bowl filled all the way or only partially filled...?

To ask: "Is X-inches enough to satisfy a woman" is the same type of arbitrary question. Which woman...? How big is SHE...? What does SHE like...? Is the person a GREAT sex partner or just an inexperienced & selfish partner...? You can be 8"-9" inches, but a lousy lover... or you could be 3"-5" and know how to rock their socks off. Again... look at my user name. What does that imply...?

Yes... I'm hung like a mouse.

But I must say, that as a sex partner, I deiiver the goods. It's all about paying attention to her wants & needs. You can make a girl orgasm without even undressing her if you create the right mood and do the right things. Penis size is just ONE variable that unfortunately too-many people focus on.

I am now in my mid-30s and have had my share of partners. I'm not trying to brag, nor do I think that I am a "god" ot "the best"... but I have had most of my partners confess to me that I have been either the best partner or even the FIRST to ever make them orgasm.

Granted... there is always the chance that the woman is lying to make you feel good... but in MY circumstances, my relationships have mostly been serious relationships, not casual dating or one-night-stands. So even in times of difficulty or sheer honesty, it was conveyed how much they enjoyed our sex life.

My point...? If you think you're not endowed enough... get over it, be comfortable and ACCEPT who you are and move on and learn how to be a good sex partner. Want to know one thing a woman finds sexy...? CONFIDENCE! If it doesn't bother you, it doesn't bother her. If you ARE well-endowed... don't fall prey to thinking that "That's enough" to please her. There is a LOT of truth to the stereotype of Large men that have no clue how to pleasure a woman.

Be happy with what you have. Ignore the porn-studs that are hung like donkeys... it's NOT the norm... just like not every woman is a double-D that likes to wear a ball-gag, take anal, receive a facial, swallow cum and lick your ass like the porn stars. It's not REALITY.

Peace...

[StaTiC2488]

I asked if I would please their needs. I did not ask if i would please all women.