Penis Size 101

[dcman1980]

I have an above average length penis, and have routinely made women sore, until they become accustomed to its size. I could go all the way into some women, and would "bottom out" in others.

So size does have its pluses and minuses. Just check out the Kama Sutra, it has a section about the 3 (is it 3?) different sizes of women's vaginas and 3 different sizes of penises and how one must find the right match for pleasure. Interesting thought, but with time and frequency, I have found most women become accustomed to the size.

[Vixxie]

Originally Posted by LovelyRita

My ex-boyfriend had a huge penis, but he never really used it. When we had sex he would just lay there and make me to all the work. My fiance is pretty big also, but he doesn't last very long, so I really don't know what the big deal is unless they know how to use it.

Lol, ive got that atm. i think that 5.6.7 is a good size, 4 would be ok if he was like amazing and 8 and above, i would need to be in full control of how much goes in. coz it hurts if its too big.

[thatoneguy]

Originally Posted by SexGoddess

A note of advice:
Don't EVER lie to a woman about your size. she's gonna find out eventually and you're not going to like her reaction. It's not the size that matters,it's how you use it and if you even just lie about the size? it does NOT look good on you.

I haven't seen this asked, but here's something i've done a couple times...I know it sounds really really strange, but with a couple girls, I've always said how small it was etc. when we've got on the subject verbally, then when they actually see it, they have produced a very nice reaction lol. From a girls point of view, is that a no-no as well in general? or does it make you ladies curious, or you think 'oh well i really like him anyway' and then get a pleasant surprise?

[dancingdoc2]

While a segment of the female population may have a preference when it comes to size, more often than not what matters most is that a man's penis need only be long enough for them to grasp. Why? Because what is important for them is that they consider the shaft to be both a throttle and a brake over a man's arousal--and they control the "stick shift lever"!

"Size" is a guy thing. Got it? Got the other? If the matter of size should come up, be honest in a matter-of-fact way and drop the subject.

[ilovepussy]

im 14virgin mines 8 - 8.5 would that be considered ok or??....

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[stook08]

great... im neither long or thick and ive no idea how to use what i have to the best i can... note i havnt had sex yet but i plan to soon.. and reading all these comments, u girls WANTING size makes me even more worried

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by stook08

. and reading all these comments, u girls WANTING size makes me even more worried

Maybe read through again... You will find a totally different answer ...
IT ISN'T THE SIZE IT IS HOW YOU USE IT.............

[dancingdoc2]

> im neither long or thick and ive no idea how to use what i have to the best i can... note i havnt had sex yet but i plan to soon.. and reading all these comments, u girls WANTING size makes me even more worried

Certainly not on this site. The reply given most often when size comes up is that it this is a guy thing, not a gal thing. Fellas are hung up on size as some symbol of potency which of course is silly if you look at things realistically.

Girls generally like three things about a man's penis: 1. that it functions as designed; 2. that it need only be long enough to grasp in order for them to use it like a combination brake and throttle over her man's response; 3. watching it grow and having a direct control over this.

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[mgc]

I will admit that size DOES matter, larger is better.