Penis Size 101

[Pappa Bear]

What is the perfect size for a girl? and how do you find the grith???

[Sentinel]

Guys here: Please Listen.

Im 19/m, in college, and certainly not a 'Sex Guru', but I can assure you many things...

Do Not Worry About Your Size! ... For One.

I see many posts from guys 15-17, questioning this so hopefully I can shed a lil light coming from a slightly older fairly experieced guy...

Size is not as important as portrayed in the media.
Firstly,
Theres nothing women care more about than respect, understanding, honesty, and love.
If you can't give her at least those things, your penis size won't fulfill her no matter how big.

Secondly, IT IS HOW YOU USE IT!
I have had nothing but amazing response from female partners and Im no huge midnight cowboy. About 7.5" in length and no idea what my girth is.
But if you read all on this site, get familiar with the female anatomy, understand and take notice to the small things she loves, you will please her till she can't forget your name and will be wanting more.

Best things I can share:
Be a giver not a taker.
Take notice of the small details!
Women love their hair to be stroked through. Use you hands and nails.
Your lower back is a stress collector ... learn to massage hers.
The neck, collar bone, earlobes are all sensitive areas. Master kissing them. Sometimes ribs as well.
Inner thighs drive some girls crazy. Massage them as well.
The sex is sooooo much better if they are aroused before insertion. If she isnt wet, more foreplay is needed.
DONT RUSH THINGS.
Breasts are not meant to be sucked dry! ... take your time, build up to them.
If you can give her chills doing any of the above, your doing well. And move on to sex.
Try different positions, many girls are shy at first...talk to her, make sure shes comfortable around you, and then rock her world.
You will most likely have to take charge at first, get used to it.
And always spend the night! If you leave before 9am and its not for class, God help you.
J/K Just make sure you on a understanding plain.
Im sure I could add more, but its 5am. Im out.

[DerekpacIsAlive]

The honest to god truth? Size doesn't matter. I know that it may be hard to believe coming from a straight man that has no experience with penises like a woman has.

But let me explain myself a little. Is a guy with an 8" penis more likely to get married than a guy with an average sized penis? Do the guys with the 8" penis fall in love? Do women fall in love with them, or their penis? So far, it doesn't matter.

Now, in all actuality, we're talking about sex. A smaller womans vagina is not made to fit 8". In fact, it's probably too big. And a woman who says that she likes it, probably also has a fetish for pain than. The average vagina is surprisingly made to fit (and will be pleased better if they go with) the average.

My girlfriend has told me repeadetly that my size is perfect. Any smaller it wouldn't be big enough. Any bigger it would be too much. I can actually believe her on this. She's a slightly shorter woman (5'4&quot, and my size is probably 6". (maybe a little under even).

Now, when you please a woman orally... it's about the way you move. The same goes with intercourse.

[finewine]

it's how you both work it. it's about being relaxed and having fun big or small. too many worries and there is no fun. it is a matter of attitude and confidence and caring for one another's pleasure in the moment that counts. if she's good she'll squeeze you tight no matter how big or small you are and she'll have a great time and make you have a great time too.

[Fortune_Cookie]

I have real trouble believing that "size doesn't matter". Mine is as small as they come(no pun intended), 5.25, not very much girth either. And I know for a fact that a guy with a 7.5 inch dick is gonna please my girlfriend a hell of a lot better than I can. It's just facts. Anyway, any tips for me (and don't say get better at oral, I put lots of effort into that .

[isaar0012]

i like from 5 to an 8 but i think it is all in how you use it girth is good also

[finewine]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Fortune_Cookie @ Feb. 17 2005,21:21)]I have real trouble believing that "size doesn't matter". Mine is as small as they come(no pun intended), 5.25, not very much girth either. And I know for a fact that a guy with a 7.5 inch dick is gonna please my girlfriend a hell of a lot better than I can. It's just facts. Anyway, any tips for me (and don't say get better at oral, I put lots of effort into that .

Personally, I would take you over any 7.5 incher if he was rude, arrogant, too sure of himself, and only thought of his pleasure be it a short or long term relationship.

I will tell you that if you want a long term relationship and not just one night stands, how you make her feel in the mind is more important than girth or length.
She can get around girth and length with positions, kegel exercises and a man who has a really good touch with the fingers... all over her body. Don't knock yourself. *I would hope, for long term relationship, she wanted to be your girlfriend for more than just your manhood at first or she would not have pursued any conversation with you.

Tip number one: have a modest bold confidence about yourself.
Tip number two: connect with her emotionally in all ways. Women are responders by design... She will respond to what you emote with your words, tone of voice, and body language.
Tip number three: read the posts on this board.
Tip number four: be a gentleman
She'll be all over you like syrup on pancakes. LOL!
Not enough gentlemen now a days in my opinion, though I am finding them on this board which amazes me. I hope you are one of them. *
Wishing you all good things, fortune_cookie.

[Alspals69]

You should listen to Finewine. You will know yourself that personality is hugely important in the girls you find attractive.

[yetagainsorrows]

A penis is a penis, nothing wrong with it unless it is not used. Then it is just sad. No one likes a ignored pecker...think about it.

[Alspals69]

So listen to these girls!! They should know.