Fingering 101

[demonbuttercup]

instead of diving face first lol
my b/f usually lays sideways. like if im on my back and he's sideways on my right. i leave my left leg straight down and he uses that as a "pillow". then i throw my right leg over his body. he says this position is more comfortable and doesn't give him the common neck strain. plus, i can stroke him and play with him as well since he is closer to me.
hope this helps.

[footballman33]

when you gusy are fingering, is your head down there or are you face to face?

[demonbuttercup]

it depends.
if you are just fingering her you could be face to face...behind her.. etc.
if you are giving her oral and fingering her, then yeah your head is down there.

[Ringo]

One piece of advice from recent experience. Ask your girl if she'd mind if you watch her masurbating.

From previous experience, a lot of girls have wanted me to concentrate on the vagina, with occasional rubbing of the clitoris, but when I was watching my girlfriend she concentrated solely on her clit the whole time.

If you're comfortable with each other, then this isn't too much to ask.

Cheers,

Ringo

[marxx]

let some video material help u answering your question

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[Magic Man]

My girlfriend is very responsive when I insert my finger halfway into her vagina and circle her opening, applying medium pressure. After awhile I can add more digits to increase the pleasure.

[Kawaii Koinu]

I think whether or not they're wet really depends on the girl. My finace and I will be sitting innocently and I'll suddenly slip a finger inside while she's dry and that'll make her wet.

I guess there is no BEST OVERALL FINGERING TECHNIQUE, it all depends on the girl.

[clare33]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (AussieSexGod @ July 07 2004,07:37)]Umn can sum1 tell me what a G-spot feels like i think i might have got it on my gf cause i felt something different inside her and when i touched it she arched but. im not sure if that was pain or pleasure.

Help please

The g-spot is on the "top" wall (the one closest to her stomach as opposed to her back). It's not something that is very distinguishable from the rest of the wall, but there is a slight difference in the texture. The gspot is slightly more textured where as the rest is more smooth. If she arched her back, that is most likely a good sign.

But why don't you just ASK her if it felt good? If you're too embarrassed to ask her, then you guys are too immature or aren't close enough to be doing it in the first place.

[anti-hero]

Depends on the girl but in bed certain techniques are best when you have the time an space. Massaging the g-spot and clitoris at the same time is a surefire winner though the pressure preference is up to the girl. Especially when it's chilly outside and you're wearing jackets but she still has on a mini-skirt, go to the movies, spread the jacket over her lap and bury your hand between her thighs. Stroke the outer lips up and down gently with your index and middle fingers. Watch her try to keep silent. It's almost as though suppressing moaning causes women (such as my gf) to climax faster. It's both hilarious and arousing to me. I think that's just about the only reason I pay $10 to see a movie.

[badguy1999]

um what is the best position for a girl to be in when i finger her(she says it hurts too much)