Fingering 101

[LLLLLL]

Why dont you lick his fingers? Right before he does it....and i bet he wont think anything of it

[Tjdude]

Just tell him, he doesn't have to feel offended, and that's the only way he will learn to please you the right way. When having sex, talk to him, don't just stay there hoping he'll make the right move this time; take control, guide him, tell him where/how it feels good, and when and where to stop/continue.
You know, when you are down there, is realy hard to know what you are doing, even more if you are a newbie, so give him a little help .
By the way, i think you can get lube at any age, it's not like it is a prescribed drug, isn't?, and it's not realy expensive, or you can use baby oil (only for fingering). Well, c ya.

[cool macs]

LMAO,

if you are afraid to tell him to make his fingers wet, what are you going to do when you realize he isn't sure where to put it?

[girlygirl]

I don't think he'll get offended. If he does, it's time he learns that lubrication is an important and necessary part of sex.

You can get lube at any drug store. As Tjdude said, you can buy it at any age. I know it might be a little embaressing, but real lube works better than saliva, and it is safer, since there is some risk of transmitting a disease through saliva.

[Angelpie7070]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Dirrty LiL Duckie @ June 24 2003,21:55)]My boyfriend fingers me and he doesn't use any lubrication and he doesn't lick his fingers. Now, don't get me wrong, I do get wet but sometimes it's PAINFUL! I feel bad telling him to lick his fingers (we're only 14... and I can't get actual lube). He's very new at doing things like this and I'm afraid that vy me telling him to lick his fingers, he'll get offended. I've already had my guy friend try to suggest it but he didn't get it. Is there any way I can bring this up w/o causing him to be offended?

Ifhe respects you and wants to please you he won't be offended at all. There is nothing wrong with communication to what you like. Either that or when you try and start something why not lick his fingers for him? Or show him how you like it done but masterbating in frount of him.
Those are my suggestions.

[Kathryn9s]

[b]OK well.....he is a few tips on fingering ur girl.....

first u can start by just making out.....then after a while u can start to slowly move down to her pussy by kissing he neck and then kissing her down the front of her to her belly button and keep goin down....after u get to her pussy start to massage it gently.....then start to rub he clit with ur fingers or ur tongue(u can ask her which she prefers)....then u can stick 1 or 2 fingers inside her...while they r inside it helps to wiggle them a lil, but not too much(u dont want to hurt her)...after a while u can add another finger....but dont forget about her clit.....u can tell how much she likes it by the sound she is making or the look on her face.....it also helps to be somewhere comfortable....me and my bf always get in the bed or in the hottub.....its great....u guys should try it sometime.....

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[Charlize]

I am one of those girls who loves getting ate out and my b/f loves to do it...I'm the kind of girl that has to have clitoral action for me to get off...But i love it when my man sucks my clit and licks it really hard..God I go crazy..

I hate getting fingered...i guess it's okay if you are rubbing my clit slowly back and forth but I hate it when a guy just starts jabbing me..I just think it's pointless to do

Oral sex and sex and just the best way to please some women!

[Jesus_has_a_cat]

well i dont know if my method is best at all, but my gf loves it i think position helps, she lies down facing up, i lie slightly next to her facing down, this way we can still kiss while i finger her reach down and use my middle finger, this works well as my palm is flat and pushes against her vagina as i do the fingering, start slow and build up a bit of speed, after a while i switch to my thumb as you canuse it more quickly and faster util she cums. dont know if it will work for you, but she loves it

[AussieSexGod]

Umn can sum1 tell me what a G-spot feels like i think i might have got it on my gf cause i felt something different inside her and when i touched it she arched but. im not sure if that was pain or pleasure.

Help please

[Marc]

My girlfriend likes this part the best;

Use two fingers and go inside slowly... (This is after foreplay but before she goes crazy) Move your fingers, in a certain rhythm/motion, very slowly inside. (For 5-10 seconds) Then slowly bring your fingers all the way out, while sliding them up across the clit. Then slowly bring them back into her vagina, while going over the clit again, and repeat. Get a good slow rhythm going. I haven't really tried going to to fast because she just loves everything done slowly. I guess the key is going slowly. Don't forget about kissing her and telling her how beautiful she is or how much she means to you. That may not sound like much but she WILL remember it afterwards.


Does anyone have a good position to finger and eat a girl out at the same time. I usually just lie in between her legs while she's on a bed. It's just kinda hard to finger and eat her out at the same time.