Fingering 101

[Vixen916]

I like it best when a guy uses his thumb because its a little wider. Either that or two fingers.. i like it slow, don't just jam 'em in there and go to town.

[Marcus]

Ok
ive just registered on this website hoping that someone could just give me a like walk through on fingering a girl..
ive never fingered a girl before i know u have to feel the clit then put your finger or fingers inside her pussy and curve them when u pull them out to try and find the g-spot
i was just wondering if this was correct and add any specail things that a bf have tried on you or you have used on a girl
i just want to get it right with this girl that i just asked out today
someone please help me

[Lo Lo]

ok, first off, you don't HAVE to touch her clit, but it's a good thing to do.
so, you could start by rubbing her clit, gently, gentle rubbing feels better and hard rubbing can hurt! I know, a guy can get to into it and hurt you! you can rub it in circular motions, or up and down, side to side, even tap lightly on it with your finger.
Then find her hole, if she's wearing pants or underwear it can be kind of tricky to find. Do not start poking your finger at her to find it, (this also can hurt) the best way is to go down alittle further towards her anus and then you can separate the lips of her vagina. put your finger in and pull it in and out slowly, you can curl it, whatever there's alot of stuff you can try, whatever feels good to her. Start going faster, you can even add another finger or two. good luck.

[ItalStall]

Welcome to the Board Marcus.

Check out this link to Fingering Techniques - it will "walk you through".

[sandy_folsom]

One thing - make sure that the girl is moist. If she isn't already, you can either go down on her or lick your fingers before inserting.

[Angelpie7070]

either that or use KY

[BigMac21]

but i dont want to fingure the pee hole is it the top hole or bottom hole?

[shetan]

<span style='color:red'>Obviously, you are very new to this whole thing. The best tip anyone can give you and has been, is to communicate, ask her what she wants, then do it. Let her know it's alright to direct you as he move. That, is the best way to get going with a girl, in my opinion.</span>

[girlygirl]

Bigmac is correct; you do NOT want to finger the &quot;pee hole.&quot; The urinary opening is a seperate orifice from the vagina and is generally not a source of pleasure. It is located further forward than the vaginal opening. I wouldn't worry too much about fingering the wrong hole, as the urinary opening is very small and not easily confused with the vaginal opening. Here is a link to a diagram to help you get better oriented:
female diagram

[Dirrty LiL Duckie]

My boyfriend fingers me and he doesn't use any lubrication and he doesn't lick his fingers. Now, don't get me wrong, I do get wet but sometimes it's PAINFUL! I feel bad telling him to lick his fingers (we're only 14... and I can't get actual lube). He's very new at doing things like this and I'm afraid that vy me telling him to lick his fingers, he'll get offended. I've already had my guy friend try to suggest it but he didn't get it. Is there any way I can bring this up w/o causing him to be offended?