Fingering 101

[sk8r4ever]

ok.....i have started fingering my girl for about 3 weeks now. And im not sure if i do it good or not. What is the best thing to do girls......
1) Put your fingers in the vagina and just move your fingers all over while they are in there.
2) The same as above except move your fingers in and out a little
3) Just move your fingers in and out and just keep doing that
4) Same as 3 except when your fingers are in her vagina...move them around
well, if there is something better than what i asked, then tell me what it is....thanx

[xx22xx]

Well, to start off, I like #1 the best, but as you know, every girl is different. With #1, if you move your fingers in circular motions while inside her, you are more likely to hit her g-spot, which is known to give a girl orgasms. If you don’t know where that is, I can best explain it by saying it’s underneath the clit (which is on the outside) on the inside.

[sk8r4ever]

Now i got another question....
how do you know if you hit the g-spot?
will your partner like make a sound when you touch it or something....does the g-spot have a feeling, like what does it feel like, if it does have a feeling.

[Seena]

She might, she might not. It's best to research a little bit so you have some idea of where everything is and what you are doing. Ask your gf what she enjoy's the most, and dislikes the most. All woman are different and will react in different ways; it's important to learn how she reacts to things so you can play off of those reactions.

[Stephanie083099]

I never really liked a guy to stick their fingers inside my vagina, I always liked it when they would play around it not in it. It never really does anything for me.

[whosoleft]

last night i fingered my girl friend for the first time i think i was doing something right because she started really getting into it she was breathing hard moaning and like scratching my back biting me and almost going crazy but she just wouldnt orgasim this went on for a while until she told me to stop because she was exuasted and my hand was just about dead i asked her after that if she had ever orgasimed before and she told me no i was kissing her during the whole thing and was trying to play with her breats does anybody have any tips so i can give her the first orgasim of her life.

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[Stephanie083099]

whosoleft, first off, welcome to the board, you will like it here
every girl is different, not all girls like it the same way. Tell her to masturbate that way she can orgasm, and she will know the way she likes it and what way gets her to orgasm, when she figures that out she can tell you so that you can do it and you will be able to give her an orgasm.

[top bowcyat]

well...i finger my girlfriend when i dont want to eat her out..but i guess im not good enough to make her climax off fingering...so girls tell me what you like


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[top bowcyat]

all right...well this is what i found that works great but not good enough
1)play with her iner thighs (just for a tease)
2) play with her clit for around 30sec-1min
3)make sure you fingers are well lubed...then enter in slowly
4)bring your fingers out all the way to the tip (still inside though)
5)then slide it in remotely fast and hard all the way in
6)then working from her (how she moans) faster, harder, tease....what ever
remember 90% of it is mental...so if you turn her on more then you'll get more resonse

[demonbuttercup]

i dont think you guys should focus so much on having to find the G-spot. like everyone said its different for every girl. personally i like my man to rubbed the outside of my panties first getting me real wet. all the while kissing and teasing my nipples. then once he puts his hands in my panties just running his fingers up and down the slit up to the clit just to make sure everthing gets wet. now when im fingering myself i prefer a slower fingering as opposed to just a jabbing as someone suggested. what ill do is insert my middle and ring fingers in my vagina leaving the first and pinky finger on either side as kind of a support for my hand... and place the heel of my palm on my clit and apply just a little pressure. then ill start moving my hand up and down slowly this allows my fingers to move in and out of my vagina while the palm of my hand stimulates my clit. its a great way to stimulate a lot of areas w/ just one hand. also moving in a circlular motion feels good too...hope this helps