Fingering 101

[themanonthemoon]

ive been with my girlfriend for a couple of months now and we get on really well and i want to take it one step further but i can never seem to get in a good position to finger her and kiss her at the same time can anyone help?

[demonbuttercup]

hmm well are u guys naked or at least pantless? hehe...ok well i find for me the best way is if u two are lying down, shes on her back and u lay next to her on ur side facing her. that way ur hand have easy access to everything. just kinda pull her towards u a little and u can caress her breasts, stomach, ass, legs, thighs, whatever while u are kissing her. then just maybe while ur hand is going down one leg slightly bend it up so that one is straight and one is bent. a little parting of the legs and u should be in a good position to let ur hand go down south...lol.

[jerjohn]

If you want to finger her without taking her panties off you should try letting her sit in your lap with her facing away from you. She can still turn her head so that you can kiss and you have good access to down below. Another advantage is that she will be squiring around a little if she is enjoying it and that is a nice little type of lap dance that she doesn't even realize she is doing. Or does she?

[Hello]

all depend on how your gonna do it, whether u slid ur finger in deeply, or just shallow, or even at all. i can bew done in nearly any position, and can depend on how flexible your hands are, when me and my girl first started going out, she sat in front of me, and that worked quite well cause u canthen tikle her ear, or kiss her neck, or such things, and another great favourite is standing against a wall (this very much depends how flexible your wrists are), and while chest to chest, kissing, with or without tongues, your hand can slip down her pants (sorry for all you americans, panties, im not refering to the item of clothing which you call pants or slacks, but which we call trousers), and have acces for shallow fingering, so long as your hand can twist around a bit, not a lot, just a LITTLE BIT.

hopes this helps
good luck

[xx22xx]

I've found that this works best on a couch towards the ends so you can lean. You, the boy, sits up with the girl horizontally lying down with her head on your lap. A variation on this is for her to move up a little bit, with your free hand cradling her. It makes it much easier to kiss. This works really well if you're keeping clothes on.

Another one is that if her pants are off, or halfway off, you can lay her on her back, and you can hold yourself up over her, and finger her, and kiss her at the same time but that one's a little harder.

[Shorty43]

Pants on or off, I think the best way is the girl on her backone leg straight and the other bent with the guy on his side. Sometimes I like to put my bent leg around my boyfriend. After that I'd go for the girl on her back and the guy kneeling over her with one leg wrapped around his ankle and the other his neck, but you gotta be comfortable with your legs contorted for that I guess.

[Stephanie083099]

I find that the best way to do this is for the girl to be lying down and the man to lay on top of her, kissing her and slowly move your hand down and then you can do both at the same time.

[ManEater32]

If it is possible to use the bed, it makes for the most comfort...have your g/f lay on her side and you can lay behind her..(spooning)....you can reach over her and be able to finger her and play with her clit. This also allows you to be able to whisper in her ear or kiss her on the neck....

[Stephanie083099]

To start with, communication is a very important part of a relationship in order to work, so you have to work on that. I really can't tell you what to do to please her because every girl is different. You have to try a whole bunch of things until you find the right thing. Try until you get it right. Try things that have worked on your other girlfriends, you never know maybe it'll work for her too. Good luck.

[slugger]

why dont u start off with rubbing the outside the start fingering her slowly then go a little bit faster and then vary by going fast and slow. then take your two fingers and rub across the surface slow with a little bit of pressure. but at the same time with the other hand finger her slowly then faster again. why dont u try this and let me know if it works!!