Fingering 101

[FieryJack]

Originally Posted by SexGoddess

Yes HER left side. If you are facing her, then it would be YOUR right side. TRUST ME. It's extremely sensitive. Although, I would not just dive right in lol. Wait til she's just a lil' excited then go for the gold!

#2. YES as far as I know, it applies to all women. I found this out about 6 months ago after reading a book called "The venus butterfly" and so, I decided to test that theory and lemme tell you, It's WONDERFUL!!!!!!!

Who said it was man's world?

We poor males only just learned how to find the damn thing... now we gotta find a PART of it????!!!!

No Fair! LOL

[emily_11]

i love sitting on my boyfriend when he fingers me, if i want it deeper or hard ill move with it and hel adjust, lol but that was once or twice now he changes it up a bit, and oh my god!

i just love him, lol

[Demonic-Booze]

ok i havent read all the posts(id be here forever) but just wanted some advice. my girl and i have been playing for awhile now, we are both virgins and dont want to have sex until marrage but we still like to play with each other. obviously she has no problem getting me off, but she is another story. ive tried fingering her and she says i get her pretty close before she gets tender and has to make me stop. according to her the closer she gets the more she feels a tingling sensation that starts between her eyes and migrates to her entire body. at one point she lost so much feeling in her body that she couldnt even uncurl her hands from a fist. now she has told me that its cause she feels so good.

so the other night i was playing around on the outside of her and she says she starts to get the tingle sensation before ive even gone in yet. so i go in and start to get more intense. she seems to get really close and i can feel her tighten up every once in awhile but she just doesnt seem to have an orgasm

i feel sorry for her cause she has never had one and weve been trying to get her to have one for about a month now and while she claims im getting her close i just dont know what else i can do, ive set the mood with scented candles, roses, chocolate covered strawberries, rose petals on the bed, soft music in the background. everything i can think of to get her in the mood. ive even given her a full body massage to help relax her and yet we still cant get one out of her. oh and she says that when i go down on her she doesnt get much out of it and ive tried everything from the main site and while it worked at first she claims it feels much better to just use my hand.

help! any ideas

[emily_11]

my bf and i both have this after or during oral sex, (ITS A GOOOOOOD THING!)
he orgasms, and i however dont

i never have and hes pretty bummed over it, i dont know what to do either..

im floating in the same boat so help him, help me

[Tarnished_Halo]

Well, depending on the mood of the moment, today for instance...he'd just finished giving me oral and I was feeling good and relaxed. I was laying on my back and he was beside me on his side facing me. It was a serene moment, with him lazily running his hands along my body while he playfully sucked one of my nipples. I love how he does that. Then he just let his fingers slip right into home. Teasing my clit with feather light strokes, alternating with his fingers barely brushing along my outer lips. They're so sensitive after oral it doesn't take much to make me climax again. Sometimes he'll go much deeper and toy with my g-spot which is always highly rewarding for me. It just seems like everything he does to me is golden.

[argekay]

What works for my wife is us in the "69" position while laying on our sides. I start by using my toungue and teasing her labia and clit. I take a nice slow pace. When she gets more excited, I put some water based lube on my fingers and verrrrry slowly tease the outside of her vagina with four fingers held together. As I continue to lick her, I am doing some dirty talk and tell her I want to open her up real wide. This really gets her going, but I continue to tease her for awhile longer. When I know she is getting close, I insert all four fingers into her with a gentle but persistant pressure. I end up with all four fingers in her past the second knuckle. This is wide enough to give her a mind blowing orgasm. The intensity of her contractions is unbelievable. The timing of the clit licking and fingering is important though. If I just penetrate her without licking her clit, it is uncomfortable for her. The trick I found is the timing of insering my fingers. I watch her body language. If I do it just right, I can stop licking her clit and finish her off using deep and wide (the wide or stretching part is key) penetration of my four fingers. Of course, we have been married for 10 years now and i know the "combination to my wife's orgasm safe" well. Practice makes perfect, and what a wonderful time we have experimenting! I have found that taking the focus off of myself, and wanting to please my wife has produced wonderful benefits. Communication and trust is the key!

[couriousgirl]

Im gonna c if my man will do the 2 finger with one hand and one on the clit idea....thanks for the description

[debbie0411]

usually she would move a lot faster,moan more,get a bit riggid and usually her toes would curl...and at times a warm gush of fluid will be produced then you know.......!that she been to the unknown world!!!

[couriousgirl]

my boyfriend starts nice and slow but he likes to go fast and hard with his fingers, i like it but like slow and soft better. i have said "slower" to him, and he does but sometimes he speads up again, any other ideas on how to get him to go slow?

[ShyGuyAmI]

What does the Cervix feel like when you are fingering someone?