Fingering 101

[clare33]

It's your positioning. When you're reaching your hand down like that, and she still has her pants and panties on, it can be very difficult for you to get your fingers in very far and/or to move them much. It would be much better if you guys could do it with her having her pants pulled down and without panties. I do understand the parents tthing, but its hard to get that excited when your parents could walk in any second anyway. Try to get some private time if at all possible. have her pull down her pants and panties. if she feels insecure, cover her with a blanket. then slide yourself down a little lower on the bed than she is, so your head is level with her chest or stomach. Kind of roll up on your side against her, and then slowly put one finger inside of her (of course i recommend touching/rubbing clit and stuff first, but im just skipping those details). Try different hand motions, like going in circles or nice hard thrusts. Don't neglect the clit - try rubbing it with your thumb while your other things are inside. If your hand gets really too tired, you can try switching hands or you can do some oral if you guys are doing that. If she starts going crazy, moaning really loud, thrusting her hips, etc. DON'T STOP and DON'T SLOW DOWN. Keep going, go at least as hard and as fast as you had been going. If she doesn't cum, don't take it personally. For many females, it is physically very difficult for them to orgasm. If she isn't wet, try more foreplay beforehand or use your spit or a lubricant.

Originally Posted by Hand_of_Death

I have a problem making my girlfriend wet when I finger her. You see, i'm not below her, if you know what i mean, when I am fingering her. My head is where her head is and I try to finger her, but it is quite difficult. Her clothes are on, but the pants are un-done. I can get probably half of my middle finger in, but she can get all of her's in. I would try and go below her, but both Her and I are afraid of our parents walking in. I think i'm positioning my hand wroung. Yet, even when I am in real deep, and I move up and down really fast on her G-spot, I get tired VERY quickly. Is there something I can do to go faster and last longer? She says when I do last, it feels really good though.

I tried to explain it the best i can, any advice would be great. Thank you.

[learst]

I was wondering>

What are the BEST BEST BEST techniques for fingering a girl and giving oral sex...specific details are appreciated...THANXX

Use two fingers at first. That will prepare her for the vaginal stretching to come. Carress the inner outside od her vagina until she tells you to do something elde, then she will want more. She'll ask for 3 fingers instead of two. Just remember you love her and she loves you, she should be in control at this point, her getting ready and wet for your dick. Be gentle and do everything she says until she caves in and needs your dick, she;ll beg for it when ready. Then you and she can have fun grinding, and ****ing each other silly.

[learst]

Originally Posted by automatic leg spreader

I have never fingered my girlfreind b4 can anybody give me like exact details on exactly what i should do? it would be very helpfull.

Just gently shove two fingers in there gently, rub around the outside of her opening(GENTLY) and after a while she will ask you to do it faster, and then she'll ask for three fingers. Just do what I said at the begining of this note and you'll do fine.

[txchic87]

I love it when my guy fingers me. It gets me sooo wet. Its better when he is beside me and a little farther down (in the bed) than I am. That way he gets more "leverage" (i guess) and his head is right next to my boobs. Its best when you finger and apply your mouth at the same time. For example, suck on her neck, nipples, or make out. MMmmmm....

[coveresid]

What is even better is to be recieving oral with the mouth on the clit and have fingers up the vagina. My woman loves the dual stimulation.

[AverageJack]

Originally Posted by txchic87

I love it when my guy fingers me. It gets me sooo wet. Its better when he is beside me and a little farther down (in the bed) than I am. That way he gets more "leverage" (i guess) and his head is right next to my boobs. Its best when you finger and apply your mouth at the same time. For example, suck on her neck, nipples, or make out. MMmmmm....

My girlfriend also likes this and she likes it a lot when i push my fingers further into her!
My advice is communicate with your partner and find out what she likes.

[VampireKitten]

Originally Posted by ty_guy

Lots of details of the art of pleasuring have been posted, but here are two common sense basics to consider well before the fun starts:

1. Clip your fingernails (for obvious reasons)
2. Wash your hands (to help prevent urethral infections)

Thank you for saying that. Most guys don't think about these things, but a fingernail is very painful. It can cause scratches that can also lead to serious infections etc.

Something else, brush your teeth or use mouth wash before eating her out, it'a mentholated, and for some reason, that's always nice...

[lovemuffin]

I agree, the left side of my clit is more sensitive for some reason.

[tiwana_04]

Originally Posted by ty_guy

Lots of details of the art of pleasuring have been posted, but here are two common sense basics to consider well before the fun starts:

1. Clip your fingernails (for obvious reasons)
2. Wash your hands (to help prevent urethral infections)

pl. take finger slowely with best lubricant, starting to one finger and then 2 and after lubricent all fingers in urs pussy. thx

[nt 2nite i hav a headache]

slide your fingers into her slowly, dont try to concentrate on the inside of her bt more to the top of the entrance get her to shut her legs for a more intense feel, as you move your fingers in a circular motion