G-spot 101

[Ephemera]

Is the G-spot like the clitoris? Do you have to work up to it, or can you go straight for the gold?

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Ephemera

Is the G-spot like the clitoris? Do you have to work up to it, or can you go straight for the gold?

Wait until she is aroused.

[abovethewaves]

so all this talk about the g spot.. so many say that there is a percentage of women unable to reach orgasm internally.. although the more people i talk to and seek out it seems as if im in a very small minority.. i have been sexually active for some time now and have had a few seriouse relationships... i've been with my current partner for two years now.. the fact that sex is unable to help me achieve orgasm troubles him to no avail.. even to the extent that he feels inadequate and almost selfish during intercourse, with the knowledge he will not get me off. i've tried masturbation, and my clitoris works just fine.. as i feel as if ive lost all hope i still hope to believe i'm missing important pieces to the puzzle.. help... i want to share this with him and for myself, i'd love to feel like a complete woman.. instead of one whose parts are disfunctional

[sexmagik]

Originally Posted by abovethewaves

so all this talk about the g spot.. so many say that there is a percentage of women unable to reach orgasm internally.. although the more people i talk to and seek out it seems as if im in a very small minority.. i have been sexually active for some time now and have had a few seriouse relationships... i've been with my current partner for two years now.. the fact that sex is unable to help me achieve orgasm troubles him to no avail.. even to the extent that he feels inadequate and almost selfish during intercourse, with the knowledge he will not get me off. i've tried masturbation, and my clitoris works just fine.. as i feel as if ive lost all hope i still hope to believe i'm missing important pieces to the puzzle.. help... i want to share this with him and for myself, i'd love to feel like a complete woman.. instead of one whose parts are disfunctional

Firstly you should talk with your boyfriend about it. If he is not ready to try his best to pleasure you completly then you're waisting your time and should find a new boyfriend

[pokemon]

Finding G-Spot :

[KMB]

I can't seem to feel much, I try fingering myself but just feel nothing just a painful feeling.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by KMB

I can't seem to feel much, I try fingering myself but just feel nothing just a painful feeling.

It sort of difficult to find on yourself. The angle and the feeling of the spot is difficult to differentiate. Best I can say it has a slight ridged feeling somewhat like a washboard and is small about 2 knuckles in anteriorly (towards the belly button). When excited it will feel slightly spongy.

[alanjobe]

I came across this which give a very good idea of how to locate and stimulate the gspot.

http://www.sex-lift.com/watch/756337...ind-the-G-Spot

I think there is another video on there about the gspot, but i can't find it.

[PlasticVicar]

Hmm. Every woman's G-spot is different, but the closest I can come to explaining what you're looking for is:

It's somewhat like a small oval-shaped bump that is usually on the front side of the girl, about a fingerlength in (this can vary) and it feels kind of like it's ridged - like the skin inside the roof of your mouth. It's hard to describe, but when you find it you'll know.

[dastranger]

Originally Posted by PlasticVicar

Hmm. Every woman's G-spot is different, but the closest I can come to explaining what you're looking for is:

It's somewhat like a small oval-shaped bump that is usually on the front side of the girl, about a fingerlength in (this can vary) and it feels kind of like it's ridged - like the skin inside the roof of your mouth. It's hard to describe, but when you find it you'll know.

Actually, (unless I'm misreading you! LOL) a woman's g-spot is in the same place as every other woman (usually), just like the clitoris. I think the reason why people get confused is:

1. Unlike the clitoris, you can't see where you're going.
2. Finding the g-spot, different women have different reactions to stimulation of their g-spot.

Some women love the feeling and sends them to intense orgasms, others find it annoying, and still others feel nothing at all. I believe that these are the reasons why "finding the g-spot" is such a mystery for people, when in reality it really isn't much of a mystery at all.

Finally, (to throw in another wrench), there many in the medical community that still do not believe in the "existence of the g-spot." So not only do you have the above reasons, but you have a split between the medical community and many sex therapists.