G-spot 101

[omegaxx]

My personal experience has been that the G-spot is definitely there... it's just not there all the time.

Before you call me crazy, here's what happens to me. I came across it when getting fingered. The orgasm was incredibly intense and quite distinct from any of the type I usually get from masturbation (in my case, applying pressure to the vulva and clitoris). I was unable to duplicate that feeling by fingering myself. I bought a vibrator and tried doing it on my own again. Nope. Doesn't work. My vagina doesn't feel a thing. But as soon as I get it on a partner, even if it's just phone sex, and I become very aroused by whatever it is we are doing--I'll be screaming in under a minute after he penetrates my vagina.

In conclusion: the g-spot is in the head. It's not a magic button in the vagina that you just push and kaboom she's in heaven. You get her in the right frame of mind, and you hardly need to do anything before she'll be screaming your name.

[ladyinwhite]

Hey guys, I'm new to this forum but I've been reading it for a while now and it's just AMAZING!
Heres my question, a few months ago I first had sex with my boyfriend and I was a virgin before that. Long before it he used to give me oral and with his finger stimulating my clit I would come, just as I masterbate. But when he's inside now (apart from the very first part that it only hurt and burnt) I can't reach orgasm at all! I have to finger my clit while he's inside.
Thats how I would cum, but it's not THAT intense. Sometimes when I apply pressure to the lower side of my labia centimeters above the opening of vagina I feel something going on inside. Is that the spot that has to be hit? It really is a bummer not to be able to cum without fingering, cuz my boyfriend gets really really aroused and cums easily...

[ShinigamiDanny]

Originally Posted by Brandye

Girlygirl.

Another (reasonable) myth. The Skene's glands are a closer analogy to the prostate in that they do make and secrete juices. But then he Skene's glands provide essentially nothing else. The G Spot, which I believe in, is not anatomical at all. The most clear description is that it feels like a little rough knob. We just cannot find it! So enjoy the benefits, if you are among the lucky to have "found yours," and do not worry about the science on what feels so good.

(Edited by Brandye at 6:22 pm on Oct. 6, 2002)

rhe g spot is reptile tissue that when sexualy aroused will fill up with blood and become distinct. it is about the size of a quarter and is about 2 inches inside, on top/belly side. the best description i can think of that feels close to it is like the roof of your mouth where the ridges are. some women are not g-spot sisative/dont like it, and some do.

[ShinigamiDanny]

Originally Posted by demonbuttercup

thats the point, maybe you didn't find yours. we all have no problem inserting a finger and finding that "spongy" type area towards the upper front of the vagina. from what brandye said if you dont feel anything extra special then maybe you didn't find your g-spot. i mean for me if i stimulate that area i just feel like i have to pee. i dont know if ive ever had an actual g-spot stimulated orgasm...all i know is that some areas dont feel as good as others and so i move or tilt my pelvis to a certain degree and well then it just hits the spot so to speak and i have an extremely pleasurable orgasm. im not sure if it was my g-spot all i know is that it felt good. i try not to worry about the science and technical stuff i just enjoy what i have. sometimes when you dissect something too much it loses its mystery.
like if i masturbate and just have clitoral stimulation to orgasm its good but nothing like when im having good sex.

that feeling of you haveing to pee is part of g-spot stumulated orgasm. you just have to let go and finish. if you think you will just pee all over the place, then do this in the bathtub to feel more confertable. this is also the reaction to squirting.
i have never been with anyone that i couldn't find their g-spot.

[ShinigamiDanny]

Originally Posted by Chewger

Definately massage the g-spot when giving oral sex. The only negative consquence is that your girl will be out for a while.

Does anyone know any good sexual positions that will allow me to hit her g-spot with my penis during intercourse?

during missonary, put a pillow under her lower back and this will help angle her for g-spot stimulation with your penis. there is also sitting cow-girl and doggy with herbut in the air and her head on a pillow relaxed. these are just a few. there are more, but i have yet to find them or experiance them, you could always have her on top and let her take control and she will find it on her own ^^

[ShinigamiDanny]

Originally Posted by Magnolya

HELP!!!
It doesnt matter what I personally, or my b/f tries, I can't have an orgasm! I feel so deprived! Can anyone give me some tips as to how I can achieve one? I get the "pee" feeling, but nothing happens....it doesnt matter how long we go for, or what we do. I want one so badly! Im 19 and have never had an orgasm. I try not to concentrate on the fact that I want to have an orgasm when we are fooling around, or having sex, but thats definatly challenging. HELP!! please. And guys, if you can help too i'd much appreciate it! haha. [B]

trying to force an orgasm will just make it harder to do so. if you mean like squirtting or having fluid discharge, some women squirt alot, some not at all, and all veriations in between. i hope this helps

[Brandye]

Shin,

The G-Spot is "reptile tissue?" Am I part snake?

You try to give (not entirely accurately) some sophisticated advice on the G-Spot but on another forum are trying to find out what spermicide is. It appears that you are copying your advice from somewhere else than personal knowledge.

Learn for a while; then advise.

[scoutniagara]

My gf had was paralysed following an injection years ago and was confined to a wheel chair. She's walking and more, again, and much of her feelings have returned, but was told that she may never again, have an orgasm...well, that was wrong. She had her first clitoral orgasm a few weeks ago and has been experimenting ever since. While a silver bullet works fine, when she gets her new Lelo Lily, she'll be in heaven.

I know where her G-spot is, can feel it and brought her to having her first G-spot orgasm, but she complained afterwards of having abdominal cramps for a day or so. Is that normal? or is it just because muscles were stimulated that hadn't been used or manipulated before?

[ShinigamiDanny]

Originally Posted by Brandye

Shin,

The G-Spot is "reptile tissue?" Am I part snake?

You try to give (not entirely accurately) some sophisticated advice on the G-Spot but on another forum are trying to find out what spermicide is. It appears that you are copying your advice from somewhere else than personal knowledge.

Learn for a while; then advise.

im not asking what spermaside is, i know what it is, but did not know how to obtain it. and thru experiance i know exactly what im talking about when talking about the g-spot. i have 3 videos about the g-spot. my curent gf and i bought them so we can be better informed about this, and i have done much reserch on the topic. idk y you are becoming persistant at herassing me, are you jelious that i know more about the topic then you? some people have eliphantitis, does that make them part eliphant? no, its just what it is called. plz get off my back, or come up with something to prove me wrong.

[Rouge]

seeing s there isn't really a medically identified place for the g-spot, is it possible for it to be anywhere else in the vaginal cavity? like, on the other wall? I haven't found anything in the supposed place where it's supposed to be, but have found that when I play and put pressure on the other wall, I get very, very pleasurable feelings. Also, when engaging in anal play I have orgasms that are much more intense than those from clitoral stimulation.