Oral Sex & Taste 101

[yippi]

Well I think if my b/f was repulsed (a strong word) by my period I would feel like Brandye - it would be like "on your bike, mister!"

But I wouldn't expect him to want to give me oral at that time. Likewise, I wouldn't expect him to insist on cumming in my mouth unless I wanted him to (sometimes I do, sometimes I don't).

True, some guys may not understand us not wanting a mouthful of semen, but my past b/f's have been understanding if I say no.

Like ItalStall says, it's a question of choice. As long as there is some give and take, don't hold one favor ransom for another.

[JRobida999]

I'm a 16 year old guy, and I think that unless a guy has tasted his own cum then he shouldnt be making or strongly suggesting that a girl take a mouthful of it. It may make me seem gay or "different" or whatever, but I have tasted my own cum. And personally, I would NEVER want a mouthful of it. Not just because I'm straight, but because it just tastes terrible(in my opinion). Therefore, I would never expect my girlfriend to take a mouthful. If she wanted to, then fine, whatever floats her boat, but I wouldn't want to, nor would I expect her to. This sounds redundant but I just wanted to emphasize that.

So, unless a guy has had a taste of himself, then he shouldnt be judging girls better or worse based on the size of the load she takes in, if any at all.

JRobida999

P.S.- Just in case I confused anyone, I am straight, not bi or gay. just a little fyi. *

[Guido]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (JRobida999 @ May 08 2003,16:36)]P.S.- Just in case I confused anyone, I am straight, not bi or gay. just a little fyi. *

JRobida999 ... "Thou does protesteth too much" - to quote Shakespeare or somesuch. It doesn't matter if you are gay or not (and I DO believe that you are not!) *

An interesting perspective in your first post. I heartily agree with your second post about each person doing what they enjoy, not what someone else expects of them. As long as we are trying to please each other one way or another, live and let live ... do what you can for your partner and appreciate what they do for you, but don't feel it has to be exactly the same thing!

[mspersia82]

I fully agree! It is much more difficult to take a big glob of semen in your mouth all at once than to taste a hint of vaginal juice over a longer period of time. I have tasted my own because my bf kisses me after he does it and if I'm anything like other women then women taste much better than men. I don't think men fully appreciate what we women do for you when we give you head. Although I do love to do it to please my man, the taste is terrible. I only let him cum in my mouth or swallow it because I know it makes him happy, not because I want to. Any man that would not reciprocate is not getting any from me.

[NewbieDude]

dissolved flesh?
ok im officialy grossed out...

[JRobida999]

I think that most guys would love to take a mouth full of her woman juice anytime other than her period. Just because we'd be afraid of hurting her because of how much she says that her period actually does hurt. We'd be more than willing to eat her out if we knew when it did and didnt hurt her while she was on her period, which just leads back to the basis of all relationships: communication. In order to know when and how much it hurts, we have to ask. And the same goes for women. If they want us to eat them out on their period, they have to tell us that we wont hurt them, that just because its their period, doesnt mean they dont feel affectionate toward us and that everything that touches them hurts. Correct me if I'm wrong, but dont all(or at least most) of you guys want to make and hear your girl orgasm? And say when she's on her period, that it did taste bad. OH DARN, we have to wash out our mouth. It's not that big of a deal. The only part is knowing when she wants us to, and if it hurts or not.

Basically: eating a girl out on her period comes down to communication between partners.

[Brandye]

Jrob,

You may have a distorted view of the "pain" you refer to. It is cramping of the uterus and nothing you do to the vulva is going to make that worse. It is not the pain that we complain about so much as the bloated feeling, irritability and mess. OK, I have some patients for whom the pain is nearly immobilizing but those are rare cases. Most of us just work on through it and accept that feeling crappy for a few days before our periods is a worthwhile price for being a woman.

[heartgirl]

Have to add my two cents (it's Canadian, so it might not be worth much)

I have been with 2 guys... maybe not an encyclopedia of knowledge here, but what the heck

My old man wouldn't even have sex with me when I was menstruating... no go there at ALL.

My new guy, well he performed oral sex on me when I was on my period... it was VERY embarrassing for me, thinking about smells, tastes, whatever..... but I have to confess, that because of what most women said... I am hornier when I'm on my period... I "got past" those issues rather quickly. I never asked him to do it... he just wanted to do it.

A little while later, when I was more comfortable talking with him about sex, I asked him why he did that (it was after the next time). He told me that he liked doing it, and when I asked about the smells and tastes, etc... he said that I didn't smell or taste BAD, it was just different than when I'm not on my period.

The taste was musky rather than sweet (his words, not mine LOL).

I still worry about him performing oral sex on me when I'm on my period... I still find it a tad "icky"... but he likes it, and well..... I LOVE it, so what the heck.

And, by the way, the "dissolved flesh" comes out in blood. On a light day, a woman has about 1 drop every 2-3 seconds, which is barely anything.

[heartgirl]

Just a question for JRobida999...

How would you know that your women is feeling pain unless you ask her?

I know I wouldn't think to tell my man that it doesn't hurt, because I would have no clue he was even wondering that.

Communication goes both ways LOL

[John E]

I guess if the truth was known I would rather give my woman oral sex than breath !! You have no idea how much enjoyment I get out of bringing my lady to orgasm orally. Due to some medical conditions I don't get a very hard erection and am rather shy about this problem. So to make up for my sometimes inability (even with the blue pill) to perform as I "should" I try to satisfy my lady with unending oral sex. I dated a lady that was very hesitant about allowing me to go down on her while she was on her period. I used to ask her to leave in her tampon which would keep us from making any mess or staining the sheets. In closing I have to say that the only thing that would be better than me giving my lady oral sex would be in I didn't have to occasionally stop and breath.. lolol.