Oral Sex & Taste 101

[JRobida999]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Stephanie083099 @ April 08 2003,20:08)]even the mall has a store where I live that sells lotions, check your mall, and see if you see sex lotions, there are all different flavors, you should really try them, they taste good and they are fun to use as well.

If your town has a good size mall, check it. There is a fairly large chain of stores called Spencer's. They sell lotions that are edible and smell good. I've heard that the chocolate doesnt taste like chocolate so i suggest ones like cherry. They also sell sex games and toys and sex dice and sometimes, sexy lingerie. They sell vibrators and things like that if you just want to indulge yourself. It's a great store for parties too.

JRobida999

P.S.- Just fyi-if you wondered, i dont work at Spencer's

[girlygirl]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (jurni @ May 04 2003,19:58)]I've learned that buying a douche bag is good. Even if you just use warm water to clean yourself out, it leaves you much fresher and you'll feel better about it.

Not a good idea. *In the long run, douching does more harm than good, because it washes out the helpful bacteria that usually keeps the harmful bacteria under control. *As a result, the harmful bacteria florishes.

[girlygirl]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Eddie @ April 28 2003,10:32)]You got to remember there isnt THAT much blood

Maybe I should be standing up for my sex here, but...

I've never understood this argument. Sure, only a small part of menstrual fluid is blood, but since when is dissolved flesh less gross than blood?

[Guido]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (girlygirl @ May 05 2003,17:31)]Sure, only a small part of menstrual fluid is blood, but since when is dissolved flesh less gross than blood?

I have to say I agree with you girlygirl.

Sex during the period is fine. And, with a tampon in place and focussing oral on the clit - ok, I could handle that.

Anything more - no way, that's just nasty to me!

But as with all else, whatever rocks your (and his) boat! If you both get pleasure from it, then more power to you!

[Hello]

just to add my six eggs, no pun intended.

i would be of the preference not to go down on my girl during her period, the ickness of other parts of me is enough with it being all over my face and mouth and teh smell in my nose, its just doesnt seem right.

But then again, i told my girl so many times before, if it makes her happy, then no sacrifice is to big, i would do anything for her, even if if wasnt the most pleasent thing, so the answer here is if she asked me to then i would, otherwise i would avoid it.

[itpurt]

i would not [b] like that at all. i have an open mind, but ...um i dont think he could even talk me into that...i get talked into everything...but this not...intercourse...yes...oral...wait a couple of days <joke>

[Brandye]

There has been much discussion of oral sex. With good reason: it is a great experience. The tone of the discussion changes depending upon who is the eater and who is the eatee.

While a few women have stated some objection to giving blow jobs, the men seem to expect that that we find a mouthful of semen to be the nectar of the gods. On the other side, I see many men posting who are repulsed, at least very hesitant, to go down on us during our periods. Even a few women use the word "disgusting." I am not trying to change anyone's mind. For instance, no penis is going in my anus and I do not want to change my mind on that, so I will not try to change yours on menstruating oral sex.

I have performed oral on men and find it enjoyable. I also find semen to be disgusting in its taste and texture. I learned to live with that because the rest of the process is really enjoyable. Semen from a healthy man is not a health risk.

I have performed oral on women and find it to be enjoyable. Our flavour changes slightly with the cycle as does the amount of lubrication. The flavor during our period is not too different from our flavor at other times and is no more of a health risk. Moreover, the wearing of a tampon or, better, menstrual cup, does not change the flavor, only the amount of the mess. My girlfriend and I will often leave a tampon or cup in place. After all we have nothing else to put in there! With men, a tampon can be a problem because when it is removed, especially when not "full," it wipes us dry and makes penetration difficult.

We may be messier during our periods but, otherwise, not that different. The brightness and fluidity of our juices spreads noticeably over a wide area. There is more semen in one ejaculation than we "bleed" during the same sex act but it moves in a rather gelatinous glob and is more easily cleaned up. Especially when caught in the mouth, there is no hint of what happened.

I enjoy performing oral sex on a reciprocating man. But if he is repulsed by my period, it will never happen a second time.

[Hello]

good point brandye, but i think many men like myself are scared off from teh fact, merely by the idea that it is a womans period. let me explain. for men, a period is a strange and daunting thing, think about it, it defys so much, for instance how can something bleed for 6 days and still not die? secondly, im sure many men have seen teh mess a period can make,m and while semen can make a whole lot of mess, semen is not something that we have pulsating round our bodies, it is not vibrantly coloured, and for certain it doesnt smell the same. Nowe, when men think about periods, they rec all all the bits of information concerning periods, everyhting they know about it, all the experiences of periods that they have had, everything, and then to be asked to go down on a woman, whihc most men enjoy immensly (no matter how much fuss they make) they suddenly reaslise theat they are being asked to put their mouths near to something that evokes all those thoughts, the same orriface they eat with, and speak through, and is most visible, is going to be so close to a blood bath waiting to happen, literally. Also, most men wont have been told any different, and for that matter women who havent tried it wouldnt know any different either, society has taught us to think badly of periods, and when we think badly of things, we cant help but be disgusted, its not the thing itself, its just the way we have been taught to react. so, the moral of this is such, men are uneducated in what happens when they go down on a woman who is on her period, its not something that has ever been recommended to them, and not something that they are free to make up their own mind on cause they have already been taught to be disgusted of such thing. so education is what is necessary, and then maybe all men will find out it is as good as u say. who knows...

[ItalStall]

No-none should have to swallow (or do) anything they are not comfortable with - period! (pun intended)

What we are (and aren't) supposed to put in our mouths is largely a matter of custom and upbringing. Some Europeans eat horse, North Americans generally don't, some people won't eat pig, some will eat snake (they consider them a delicacy) - and on and on. What is a tasty snack in one person's opinion is yuck in anothers. No big deal.

My point is; don't let preconceptions and other people's narrow-mindedness limit your options. Be open-minded to all possibilities, but don't ever feel you have to eat/drink anything, whether it be vaginal fluid, pre-cum, semen or period fluid. I know where I draw the line - but that's my line.

Consider everything, then draw your own line where you feel comfortable, and don't expect your partners line to be the same as yours. If they like to swallow something and you don't (or vice-versa) - so be it. Let each enjoy what they like - it shouldn't be tit-for-tat! This isn't a question of right or wrong, it's a question of choice.

[JRobida999]

I just wanted to add, that when a male of any kind who knows waht a period is, hears the word "period" describing a woman, they automatically think "moody woman." And when males hear or thinks "moody woman," they also think "STAY AWAY!" because the amount of damage a moody woman can do (NO OFFENSE LADIES), is mindboggling. My point is, that when guys hear period, it leads to moody woman, and that leads to stay away, which implys all aspects of her, not that you need to stay away from everything except her genitals. This being said, if a period didnt sound so "dangerous" to a male, maybe they wouldn't be so hesitant to be intimate with her on her period.

Not to mention that periods cause pain in a woman, which leads us to believe that contact anywhere, ESPECIALLY IN THAT AREA, will cause more pain. And because we love our ladies so much that we never could, or would never mean to hurt them, that we dont want to attempt this in fear of making them suffer more.

"And thats all I have to say about that."
-Forest Gump

JRobida999