Oral Techniques 101

[finewine]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]love kisssing, and slididng my fingers up and down her back, and not diggin my nails into her back but more of a fingertip grasp, and just using my whole body all over her body, being close and soft and slow,

mmmmm yeah, total sensual stimulation overload. mmmmm
you are much more than ok.

[missphoebes]

ok, I CANT have an orgasm thorugh oral. I went out with a guy all through high school, and we did it hundreds of times, ive since had a guys try, and nothing. it feels good, but I cant come, it just gets me really horny and I want to have sex because i cant stand the teasing any more. I have gotten to the point where my legs are shaking, and I'm arching my back, and its all tingly, but then nothing. They just all seem to change pace or intensity or something, and it kind of slips away. you know? Many of my friends say that its an awasome kind of orgasm, and I really want to experience it. how do I tell a guy what will make me come?

[iamawesum69420]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]They just all seem to change pace or intensity or something, and it kind of slips away. you know?

When you feel like you're getting close to cumming let them know that and tell them to keep doing whatever they're doing at the time to get you to this point. When I start to feel like I'm about to cum I grab the back of my boyfriend's head, pull his hair, and make sure his mouth isn't going anywhere. I tell him that I'm about to cum and beg him to keep going and not to stop. The begging has an added bonus. Not only does it get me what I want, he loves it and it really gets him hot.

[yetagainsorrows]

Men don't take hints too well ( at least the ones that I have been with) you need to take his hand his face, what ever and say: "There, right there don't stop" and he will listen. Guys don't know they aren't us, so we have to teach them and be strait forward, the last thing you need to do when you are close, is think about how you are going to sugar coat, "don't move or don't stop" just say it. you and he will be gald you did. Outside of the intimate moment you might want to talk about what turns you on to the point of orgasm, for both you and him to know about each other. It's good to know the tricks, but that is with time, teaching, trying, learing and discussion.

[moose_hd]

WOW, there's tons of valuable info here and I can guarantee it will be put to good use the next time I see my gf!

Though I am wondering about something else on this topic: When I am eating her, it is better for her to be lying down or sitting on something that allows her to spread her legs and recline, or some other position? We are both very new at this sort of thing, so we really don't know what is the most effective method (if there is one at all.)

[Alabama_Wild_Man]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (LovelyRita @ Aug. 28 2002,18:33)]I have said this many times before, "Oral sex kicks ass." With that said, honestly, I'm happy to be getting anything. Everything about oral sex feels absolutely wonderful. Just remember, you can't get better unless you practice...a lot.

"... you can't get better unless you practice...a lot ..."


...only wish that I could....

[georgetownbabe1818]

Well I am sorry but men just can't fufill as much as a women can.

[meleagant]

about the positioning thing, is there really like "the position" to try this in? I mean theres always her laying there legs spread and the guy laying there face in. but, what do you females prefer? I know every female is different so please dont give me that. I want an opinion from you females, and males from what there females like the most.

[Mistress_Nyx]

Hey all! I'm a bit new here. I have no idea how I came across this site but it has kept me riveted for the last few hours.

Oral techniques on the female genitilia.........

It brings me waaaay back to an old Sam Kinison routine where he would give guys advice. And hot damn! It worked!

His best advice was licking the alphabet. I was hanging out with a guy (I was 15 and he was 18--and he was extremely talented to begin with) when we watched that special. We experimented and ended up diving into full scale research. Needless to say, I was extremely pleased with the results.

Many years later, it is my best advice to a guy when he is going down.

[BrowneyedEvelyn]

I have one big no no and one big yes yes:

No no - Hard tongue flipping over clitoris million miles an hour. I think they've got that from a porn movie, where girls moarn for pleasure what ever guys do. I have a couple of words for that person who ever thought that looks sexy!

Yes yes - sucking in the clitoris and surroundings. Gently though, no need to turn on the vacuum cleaner for that. Sucking in, and simultaniously playing around with a soft tongue. Yappee!