Oral Techniques 101

[nodoubt16pb]

I, personally, like when they switch off sucking and licking lightly or hard and also fingering.... NOW THAT IS PLEASURE.

[JTee]

Read all you can and listen to these tips ... but I think you also just have to pay attention to her body. *Don't treat it like a performance where you have to do everything "right" .... treat it like a non-verbal, physical dialogue ....

Find out how much response you can get with the minimum of contact with her clitoris. *My boyfriend can just move his tongue AROUND it, without quite touching it, and once he gets the rhythm right I can have multiple orgasms just from that. *(The value of not touching it directly is it doesn't become overly-sensitive. *Also, when he goes down on me, I like to have him insert two fingers into my vagina .... He doesn't have to move them, in fact I prefer if he doesn't ... I just like that pressure ...)

But there are no black-and-white rules, and if you're receptive to her body and what it's telling you, sometimes you can break the "rules" with stunning results. *A while ago my guy was going down on me like I just described, not quite touching my clit, and I'd had like two or three nice little orgasms, and then -- inspired, I guess -- he suddenly wrapped his whole mouth over my clit and sucked it and sucked it and sucked it in a totally shocking and violent maneuver. *This gave me the biggest, most incredible, earth-shattering orgasm I've ever had in my life, which ended with me literally fainting dead away. It was amazing.

So, bottom line: *educate yourself, but be receptive to her ...

[eliza]

how can u pull out the clit? isn't it painful?

[demonbuttercup]

where did you read that?
anyhoo, you dont really "pulll it out"
when you pull back the lips it usually just kind of pops out..heh

[SanRemo0621]

a lot of you are saying that pressure on the clit is bad....but with my girlfriend...she can't orgasm unless shes on top during sex and i have yet to get her to orgasm with my fingers or mouth...im trying! i want her to experience another kind of orgasm...thats why i was reading this thread....but is it weird that she needs LOTS of pressure??? should i tease to maybe increase her want to come?

SR

[cunnuslover]

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[demonbuttercup]

pressure isn't "bad" its just some women are more sensitive to it than others.
some can barely have theres stimulated, others need a lot of stimulation.
also, does your g/f use a vibrator a lot on her clit??
using those a lot can desensitize the clit causing it not to feel as much normally.

[tweaser]

Who out there can tell me what I am doing wrong during cunninglingus? Seems like my technique does the exact opposit of my intentions, my woman is becoming very relaxed, (but also lubricated). I don't get it! In the past, (once or twice), she was got off great but I can't seem to repeat that even though I done a lot of reading and understand the
mechanics of it all. She says she enjoys it but it relaxes her. Last night I incorporated a
small vibrator at the same time for about half an hour with not much success. We continued afterwards with regular sex and she always gets off. Is there something else I can try because this is very fustrating. I enjoy going done on her emmensly but since she is not getting off it take s a lot of ther ejoyment out of it. HELP! [quote]

[lxluckee]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Brandye @ Sep. 15 2002,19:05)]SexGoddess,<p>You are onto a real phenomenon. Orgasm in men generates endorphins in the brain. Very pleasureable but makes them sleepy. Young sperm machines keep on going but more mature men poop out and we women get shorted.<p>Make sure you get yours first!!!

You know what... I agree, and im a guy. When i have a huge orgasm( and i normaly do during oral ), I get very tired. But, I find that going down on her first gets me even more horny, the more I do to her the more I want, so I like to take oral last...I go down on her first, then we have coital, then finaly she blows me... both satisfied, I fall asleep within minutes.

[moonflower]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (lambchops @ Feb. 18 2003,23:25)]the best way to find out what a woman wants is to ask...if she's too scared to tell then maybe she doesn't really mind what you do...pretty much any tongue to vagina contact will be pleasing to her

Not true!! You can not think that you go down there and flick your tongue around a little bit and wooo weee. It does not work that way. Some women do not know what they like until it has been done, but that is a good start.