Oral Techniques 101

[Stephanie083099]

I personally do not like a guy to stick his tongue in and out of my vagina, it doesn't do much for me, I'd rather him just lick my clit and around it, start off slow then as I start to feel good then go a little fast, but he has to mix it up a little bit, slow fast slow fast, you get the point, right?

[slugger]

first u have to finger her a little bit to start off then u lick around the clit real slow and then run ure tongue across it but not too hard then once u got ure momentum started u will know what to do from their "response".

[JRobida999]

Hi,
I am going to visit my girlfriend in a few weeks, and since the last time we saw each other we have been talkng. We have both decided we want to experiment with sexual activities more. I have fingered her once, but I didnt know how. I talked to her afterword and she said I hurt her and I did some research and found out some possible reasons why it hurt. I am definitely going to be more careful next time we do that kind of thing. Anyway... We also were talking about doing more than just fingering. She asked me if I would ever go down on her and I said yes, but only if she wanted me to. I kind of took that as a hint to maybe try it. Of course, if she says no, or pushes me away, I will stop on a dime. I would do anything for this girl. I did some research, but I had a question for all you girls(and women).

Are there any techniques for fingering or oral that really REALLY hit the spot for you? you know, ones that give you fist clenching orgasms? I wondered because i dont care about me getting "relieved" as along as she gets off first. I really want to please her but I dont really know what would really do the trick. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

JRobida999

[Stephanie083099]

It is good that you waited on her, and you're not pushing her to do anything she don't want to do.
When fingering her don't go crazy with the clit, (you know that it has more nerves in the clit then on an entire penis), it is very sensitive so don't push hard on it.
Personally I don't like fingering inside, I like to be played with on the outside. But every girl is different.
If you do plan on going down on her, make sure she is ready and also use ice cubes, it feels so good. and again, the clit is very sensitive.

[chuli]

yo all females are not the same like stephanie said so asking other women what they like might not necessairly help you with your girl.what i do with my girlfriend is tell her to go down there with you and guide you,have her play around with your fingers on top of hers find out what she likes and doesn't. Then when you think its time to go on (on your own) tell her to feel free to tell you if she feels uncomfortable or if it hurts. If she doesn't feel right tuching her self then you might have to do all that on your own(exploring). if your doing that then you are not trying to please but just finding out wat feels good to her asking her if this feels good as you go along.

[JRobida999]

I know that all women are different. I know that something that works on one girl might not work on the other. I just wondered some possible things I could try; just so I'm not just shooin' in the dark. I just want for her to enjoy it, and if I can get sompe possible techiniques that might help achieve that then I would be sooo happy. Like I said before, any advice is very appreciated.

JRobida999

[cunnuslover]

I knew this married lady i was 18,at the time ,all she wanted was oral ,she did me too . i asked her why not sex she said i would problay bang her five or six times ,and when she went home her husband would want sex and she would be sore where as with oral , no soreness could screw him silly ,i use to see her a t least once a week she was great did a great blow job too , she was a wonderful experience.

[NieA]

Well, this is my opinion. *A little bit of everything is best. *Start GENTLE. *Be caring and delicate. *As I get further a long, I like my boyfried to start licking faster, and taking in my clit to suck it relatively firmly. *Tongue insertion feels very good, and should be used, but it won't get me to orgasm. *Fingering also feels good, but not at the expense of the clit. *If you can't do both at once, just stick with the tongue. *Also, I like to be licked quickly, ie. flicking, but licking it long and firm, kinda like ice cream, also feels really good. *I hope there's nothing I'm forgetting.
In summary, a bit of everything, finishing with constant clitoral stimulation.
IMHO...
P.S. I actually get tired quite easily - much more than my boyfriend. I have to have at least a half hour after an orgasm before I can really go at it again.

[HSsucks]

If a girls's clit is sensative should I go around it like in a circle or something? What should I do?

[girlygirl]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (HSsucks @ Aug. 10 2003,21:54)]If a girls's clit is sensative should I go around it like in a circle or something? What should I do?

The most sensative part of the clit is the head. If her clit is too sensative, focus more on the stem of her clitoris and other parts of the vulva.