Oral Techniques 101

[sania]

Originally Posted by whyyknott

I would suggest that he continues to give you oral sex along with some fingering to bring you to completion. I my wife gives me a blow job and gets me to cum, then there is no way to fuck after that. But I do enjoy going down on her and giving her oral to get her to orgasm also. There have been some times that we have fucked and I reach my orgasm and cum in her. But she still needs more, so I will go down on her to get her to cum also. She thinks it is hot that I'm willing to do this even with my cum in her vagina, so it works well for us. I was hesitant at first to do this and taste my own cum, but if she is willing to let me cum in her mouth, I should do the same. I found I liked tasting my own cum. We haven't done this for awhile, but writing about this makes me want to do this again and enjoy my cum with her juices also.

After exploding after a nice blowjob from me, my husband tries to go down to give me oral but lacks interest. Perhaps bcoz he has just finished. Also I dont get that excited by someone giving me oral. We generally watch prono's or talk something sexy. Normally I continue playing with his cock in 69 while he fingers my pussy.Occasionally i get on top of him in 69 or sit on his face and make him lick hard.

[RAMA]

After exploding after a nice blowjob from me, my husband tries to go down to give me oral but lacks interest. Perhaps bcoz he has just finished. Also I dont get that excited by someone giving me oral. We generally watch prono's or talk something sexy. Normally I continue playing with his cock in 69 while he fingers my pussy.Occasionally i get on top of him in 69 or sit on his face and make him lick hard.

I appreciate you Sania. Since ur partner gets cumming with oral soon and does not care about ur orgasm, You should give some gaps when you give B/J to ur partner.

69 is the best way to get orgasm for both.

[RAMA]

Originally Posted by whyyknott

I would suggest that he continues to give you oral sex along with some fingering to bring you to completion. I my wife gives me a blow job and gets me to cum, then there is no way to fuck after that. But I do enjoy going down on her and giving her oral to get her to orgasm also. There have been some times that we have fucked and I reach my orgasm and cum in her. But she still needs more, so I will go down on her to get her to cum also. She thinks it is hot that I'm willing to do this even with my cum in her vagina, so it works well for us. I was hesitant at first to do this and taste my own cum, but if she is willing to let me cum in her mouth, I should do the same. I found I liked tasting my own cum. We haven't done this for awhile, but writing about this makes me want to do this again and enjoy my cum with her juices also.

Buddy,

cumming in her vagina is good, but why should you taste ur own cum? Let her have a good wash and have some fragrant and Honey in her vag. and try to lick and taste the Honey.

Infact I have tasted many times this Honey in horny vagina and yummmmmmmmmmmmmy enough. More over the vigorius tasting Honey in vagina makes her to fly atop.

Try and say thanks to me buddy....!

[snr]

my husband and i had great sex this morning. i sucked him till he came he had my vibrator in me till i came

[ire]

i am very new here,and honestly i'd love to know everything about oral sex performed on the woman,i want to give my gf what is the best,i'd love giving her pleasure,and i'd like to eat her out the whole night and i'd still don't have enough of her,bt i really need to learn some techiques,i am eager to learn everything about this topic and not only,because for me to see her pleased first is the most important,then me
i'd really appreciate any of your tips or advices

[dancingdoc2]

Ire, welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people write in about. In addition, go to the site's Home page for even more information.

Here is a link to an article on hand and oral stimulation.

Now, the how-to of Foreplay (oral and manual stimulation) is only one part of the picture. More to the point is in how you make out before this. For information on fooling around and making out before ever getting to Foreplay, consider learning how to become a better lover when it comes to making out. There are several articles listed in the Index on all this. They discuss not only the how-to of all this, they also discuss the various stages and how to go from one to the other.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[BUDDHAME69]

I am old school, I lick the a b c's and then from that find the places most licked to be licked and work her way to orgasm. Just got on here to find out new things to do while I am down there doing my thang...

[ASCW]

After exploding after a nice blowjob from me, my husband tries to go down to give me oral but lacks interest. Perhaps bcoz he has just finished. Also I dont get that excited by someone giving me oral. We generally watch prono's or talk something sexy. Normally I continue playing with his cock in 69 while he fingers my pussy.Occasionally i get on top of him in 69 or sit on his face and make him lick hard.

It seems that you making him cum first is a bad way to go. When a man finishes his sex drive takes a temporary dip. He loses some of his natural motivation for pleasuring you. When a man is sexually aroused and he is going down on his partner his sexual excitement translates into enthusiasm and energy which definitely shows itself in the overall performance. He lacks interest because his sexual strength has been temporarily sapped from him.
Also you say that you don't really get excited from oral. It's possible that your husband is bad at it or maybe he goes down on you after cumming too often. It's also possible that you just simply don't really enjoy oral sex, and that's fine. Not everything is for everybody.

[smoothwaitress]

Brandye good advice. This reminds me of the Seinfeld episiode when Elane is attempting to turn a gay guy, switching teams as they put it. I am paraphrasing" How can we be expeted to be experts with the equipment when we only have access to it for a few hours a week, when they have it 24 hrs a day". Women do know what Women like.

[YippieSkip]

I do! However, my boyfriend (though he is a sexual maverick) loves licking really hard and fast, then biting and sucking on my clit before letting it snap back into place. Yes, I scream, because it's so intense it hurts! And because it's intense, I have to make him stop, so I'm not satisfied, just frustrated.
On the other hand, when he licks me soft and slow I go crazy for all the right reasons; and beg him NOT to stop.