Oral Techniques 101

[redeye2YYZ]

Hello Everyone,

I do apologize if this topic has come up with anyone else but;

I enjoy going down on my wife. It was difficult at first as she was uncomfortable and after some time she allowed me to do so. I noticed at times there was a white milky stuff in and aournd her Vagina. Not that I mind I still did my best to pleasure her and she has organism many times. I asked her what that was and she said that she didn't know. Should I be worried? I am sure its safe but I am just being curious.

[dancingdoc2]

Vaginal mucus, e.g. her "wetness".

It changes consistency throughout the month and depending upon how turned on she is, it can also change in amount.

[redeye2YYZ]

OK, thanks for the info. I don't mean to ask a stupid question but is it safe if and when I go down on her?

[its_legal@16]

I don't know, but it really irritates me when people intimate things for pathetic and hedonistic reasons, also recently I was receiving oral sex from a good friend, but why must people be so half hearted and sloppy with it. Yes I must admit I am one of the youngest people here, but I have the experience to know what I am talking about. I like to give it all and do what I do with with a passion, I don't just mean sex ect. but every aspect of my life I strive to do my best in, I know it would be ridiculous to ask everyone to strive for everything, it would just be nice if people tried a little harder. I personally like to say I can satisfy a women, but I have learned to, and open conversation is a bigger factor than skill, I have found finding what they like before I go down makes for an all round more enjoyable experience

[Eforcer]

I love to go down on my G/F's. But I have noticed that it really all depends on the individual. What I do to one might not work for another. You have to experiment with each & with her movements and moans you will learn what each one likes.

For me it's a must to go down on my G'F's. I get extreme;y aroused by those moves, motions & moans. Nothing better.

[Billyboy331]

I haven't noticed anyone specificially mentioning something that my fiance really likes. After I've worked my way down to her pussy, I gently lick the space between her inner and outer lips, on both sides, getting them nice an wet. She's usually making some nice sounds by then. I'm positioned sideways, so her vagina is like a mouth from my perspective.

Then, without opening the vagina, I put my mouth around her inner lips, my lower lip under her lips, my upper lip over. I gently suck. Now she's louder. Again, without opening the vagina, I rub my tongue up over the lower lip, and then down over the upper. Up and back, over and over. Gently sucking all the time.

This gets her very hot, and begging for more. I haven't been able to make her cum that way, but I'm pretty sure I will.

[Cool]

Nice and slow is the key. I have found out that i like different things from different guys so ask the lady what she likes. I love tongue action up/down, left/right etc. just don;t pull on it when i'm cummin. Talking it out is the best way to know what a women want from you.

[sania]

I am 30 and married. We are happy with all sex life we are enjoying. We give each other oral sex to each others satisfaction. But the problem is whenever I give him oral sex; blowjob or deep throat ; whatever happens, he enjoys this and keeps on doing it till he explodes in my mouth. I dont have problem with cum but the problem is after blowjob he cannot give me sex for quite a long time. Many times I ask him to stop in my mouth and go down. We do in 69 postion. But that adds to my problem. He gets so excited that he finishes in my mouth. And I have to wait for long for him to get ready again to fuck me. Thats why many times I avoid giving him head in begining, which he does not like. Some times, after I give him oral, and ask him to enter my vagina, he finishes very quickly.
Just because of this, he suggested me to threesome some time back. We do it sometimes but I wish to get maximum out of him alone. One of my friend told that because of hot weather and full day job this happens. So we should have rest and do early morning.
Is there any way out?

[RAMA]

Dear Sania,

what you say is a common problem in India, as me too in India. Due to hot climate in India we also face this some times. To control it my partner gives some breaks and gives some gap and we talk manythings at that time. When we both feel the time to do intercourse we both change our poition and do the vaginal sex.

Give him break and joy of entering the heaven.

[whyyknott]

I would suggest that he continues to give you oral sex along with some fingering to bring you to completion. I my wife gives me a blow job and gets me to cum, then there is no way to fuck after that. But I do enjoy going down on her and giving her oral to get her to orgasm also. There have been some times that we have fucked and I reach my orgasm and cum in her. But she still needs more, so I will go down on her to get her to cum also. She thinks it is hot that I'm willing to do this even with my cum in her vagina, so it works well for us. I was hesitant at first to do this and taste my own cum, but if she is willing to let me cum in her mouth, I should do the same. I found I liked tasting my own cum. We haven't done this for awhile, but writing about this makes me want to do this again and enjoy my cum with her juices also.