Oral Techniques 101

[kjw_1282]

I do get that sometimes.

[TenBall]

Originally Posted by 800000

My boyfriend can't go down on me because apparently he can't breathe because his nose is covered up.. Is that a problem for any of you?

This can be a problem when moving the tongue in and out of your vagina to get to the G spot. At that point I stop breathing from my nose and from start breathing from my mouth or hold my breath. Another trick I do is position the tip of my nose on her clit and shake my head in a "no" movement left and right. That opens my nose so I can get a bit of air in while still stimulating the clit. I have a few more but I'm not going to give away everything I've had to learn on my own by trial and error. I can say I know I'm doing a halfway decent job because I've had a few women grab me by my ears (if I had hair I'm sure they would pull it) and ask me where are my gills.

[ljtsbabyy]

then i would tell him i can't breath with his dick in my mouth either.

and see if he has a sudden "recovery"

[d-boy]

I've tried the abc on her but usually only get up to d or e then stop cause it don't seem to be hitting her spots,should I still try to get to z? Problem with her is once she starts enjoying it she gets horny and wants to have sex. Never got her to cum with oral.says she can't cum with oral. I just think it hasn't been done right way yet. I think she's enjoying it cause her pelvic starts moving up and down and the vaginaopens up. I'm determined to do it right for her but gotta figure out what I need to do??

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by ljtsbabyy

then i would tell him i can't breath with his dick in my mouth either.

and see if he has a sudden "recovery"

lol awesome advice and I bet it works very well too...

[Endurnz]

Its not the size. Its the performance.

[Cataclysmic]

The only man I ever enjoyed getting oral from was my psycho exboyfriend. The only reason why is because he had a tongue ring that felt amazing.
Other than that though, I really don't enjoy oral at all. I find it to be kind of boring. I let my new boyfriend do it, just to make him shut up about why I never let him do it to be honest, but that's about it.
I kind of wonder why I've never liked it? Most of the girls I know actually don't like it either. So...I don't know. Maybe it's just a myth that most girls enjoy it. haha.

[funinthesun]

Originally Posted by Cataclysmic

The only man I ever enjoyed getting oral from was my psycho exboyfriend. The only reason why is because he had a tongue ring that felt amazing.
Other than that though, I really don't enjoy oral at all. I find it to be kind of boring. I let my new boyfriend do it, just to make him shut up about why I never let him do it to be honest, but that's about it.
I kind of wonder why I've never liked it? Most of the girls I know actually don't like it either. So...I don't know. Maybe it's just a myth that most girls enjoy it. haha.

Lack of skill most likely.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by funinthesun

Lack of skill most likely.

I agree.... young people these days don't know the meaning of a good oral session

[den2k]

That's my most often used "recipe" to get my woman to a good orgasm by oral sex, it's divided in 5 gradual "phases", which you can skip or not accordingly to whatyou want to get (i.e a fast orgasm or a slow intense one...)

phase 1: caressing and kissing) This is not actual oral sex, during this phase i use to kiss her starting by the arms and breast, then slowly going down to stomach, butt and legs. Then I start licking and kissing legs heading towards vagina

phase 2: arousing) When I'm ready to go down I start kissing, licking and sucking the area between the legs and the vagina, being careful to not touch it, as I only want her to get really aroused. In the final seconds of thisphase i allow my nose to rub on her, to see the situation

phase 3: make her want me to not stop): Here it comes oral. Now I lightly lick her (external) labias, whitout pushing my tongue inside i limit myself to lick slowly and kiss her labias, then take them in my mouth and slowly let them go. I lick on the entire vagina, from the hole to the clit, slowly and lightly

when she starts to moanor to keep my head pushed on her

phase 4: straight to it) Now I want her to come, an I often get it in no time (from 1 to 4 minutes). I do it by pushing my tongue between her inner labias and licking her clit (WHITOUT exposing it, just putting in my tongue) in circles, changing speed, rotation and radius (from clit-only to entire labias) accordin to her moans and muscle movements (and to what I want to do, if a quick come or a slow cum) until she cums.

phase 5: it's not over) Now i please her by licking lightly her entire vagina for a short while then putting my mouth on her hole nad sucking, as to suck her humors, she reaaly likes it.

Try iy