Oral Techniques 101

[learning]

Can any of the girls out there advise on the combination of oral and anal stimulation?

My wife has the most amazing orgasms when she allows both oral and anal stimulation simultaneously......either rimming with fingers in the vagina, or oral with a little anal stimulation.......This is often followed by rimming which is where she gets off big time!

The result of the time is something like posted by Michelle2004.......a full ride to the finish line!

Do other girls like the combo?

[twcgirl4ever]

I do not like it when my boyfriend breathes hot air on me. I can't feel it... and really it doesn't turn me on. When it comes to oral I'm really picky. I don't particularly enjoy it. However, really good oral begins with lots of fingering while you lightly suck on the clit. Numerous times it has felt like my boyfriend is trying to rip it off being rough because he likes it rough down there, he thinks girls do to. They don't!! Rough fingering is the best though... fisting is also ammmmaaazzziiinnggg!! Everyone should try it.

[twcgirl4ever]

The combo of oral and anal is a little weird to me. However it's the feeling of being full on both ends that is very awesome. The double anal and vaginal fingering is exciting and I def. think you should try it. But make sure your girl is comfortable with it first!

[learning]

Thanks for the reply. Infact, my wife has on a number of occasions been filled both sides, ofetn with a finger both sides and occasionally vaginally by me and anal with a finger. Her body reacts beautifully to this and much pleasure is derived. If she is comfortable with it we will reverse the orifice fillings when she is ready! I would love to do this with a toy as replacement for the second penis as although the fantasy is hot, the reality I do not think I could live with! Plus we could work up in terms of the girth until she is comfortable or wants no more!

I am here for her pleasure.....which in turn will gve me mine!

[dermottsean]

pLEASE CAN SOME ONE TELL ME WHY A WOMAN ENJOYS A MAN DOING ORAL SEX ON HER AND HER ON HIM,THEN TELLS EVERY ONE HE IS A PERVERT,ITS ANNOYING TO HAVE SOME ONE YOU BOTH KNOW BRING IT UP TO YOU WITH A LOOK OF DISGUST ON THERE FACE ENOUGH TO MAKE YOU QUIT,

[HardNgood]

dump her! or excuse her for being 14

[Lizzy]

We started the same way, but with time my hubby and i started walking the extra mile. may not be suited to you but after hubby thought me anal penetration and having used the mouth for oral and vagina for the sex as we know it, got into 3sums and enjoying it thoroughly now. tried multiple as well and prefered 3m and me 1f as each could satisfy my needs simultaneously.

[Lizzy]

Originally Posted by twcgirl4ever

The combo of oral and anal is a little weird to me. However it's the feeling of being full on both ends that is very awesome. The double anal and vaginal fingering is exciting and I def. think you should try it. But make sure your girl is comfortable with it first!

I have indulged in this and for me it's great

[dastranger]

First time poster! Whenever I see the topic of cunnilingus, I'm instantly interested as it is one my favorite topics.

Anyway, considering at the topic at hand, I thought I'd bring up some points:

1. Enjoy yourself and the person you are with.
Yes orgasms are wonderful. Yes, it's wonderful bringing your partner to orgasm. Yes! YES! YES! (Sorry) However, please remember to enjoy yourself and your partner. Orgasm is only one of many aspects of good sex. So, if your only focus and stress is on bringing your partner to orgasm and nothing else, then (imho) you're missing the point and too often you will *not* bring your partner to orgasm.

Enjoy yourself and enjoy your partner. That should be your #1 "task" during sex.


2. There is no one way or "sure fire method."
It doesn't exist. All of these oral sex "guides" are nothing more than that. Guides. Partner satisfaction is not about following a list of ingredients or instruction manual. Guides can be helpful, but remember that there isn't a one way of doing things.


3. Learn to tease.
Not sure if there's an eloquent way of saying this, but it's usually better to be wanted than to get someone to want you. In other words, (editors note, please see point #2 again), don't go directly for the clit or gspot, etc.! Make her WANT you to go for her clit. Hope this makes sense.

Another thing, beyond her clit there's 99.99% of the rest of her body. EXPLORE IT. Besides (at least for me), one of the hottest things in the world to hear is for a woman to "beg you" to touch her clitoris/whatever.


4. Listen and follow her movements.
I sometimes think of sex much like ballroom dancing (not club dancing). In ballroom dancing, you have to learn how to lead and follow your partner. Sex is very similar to this. Learn to sense what turns your partner on and off. This takes time and practice and help you overall besides just oral.

On a side note, I think everyone should learn how to ballroom dance (any type). Why? Because it teaches you and your partner through trial and error, how to lead and follow. Additionally, it teaches each other how to read our body movements, emotions, etc. without speaking, thereby making things much more instinctual.


Finally, any man that claims they can get any woman "off" at any time is just fooling themselves. Enjoy yourself and the person you're with. That's the most important thing of all.

[daphnesboy]

Just wanted to thank everybody for all their posts and discussion here. I just joined recently. My girlfriend is coming up to visit me in a couple of days, and I've been reading like I'm studying for finals!

If I get the right idea:

Lot's of teasing (i'm totally good for this, I even bought a book on kissing: http://www.amazon.com/Art-Kissing-Wi.../dp/0312117442 - Highly recommended)

Slow buildup, lots of creativity. In fact I told her in detail what my plans are (online). I think she nearly orgasmed when I told her. Probably a mean thing to do since she was at work sitting at her desk, but she got me back.

After I am done with her face I am working my way slowly down. I cannot wait to get my mouth on those tits! I wish I had two mouths, but fortunately I have hands too. Then her belly, her belly button. When I get down there I might even start over at her legs just to drive her nuts, but she might attack me and I'l lose my chance!

Up and down her outer lips with my lips, I can't wait to do that. I think the fun part is here, where I can really be creative and just go at her pussy in every way I can think of... But when the time comes, and I think I am getting the point from these posts, I am going after that clit, and firm and steady, and I will not stop until she is cumming and hopefully screaming/squealing.

I told her that whatever she wants - if I have to go faster, slower, , harder, ight, left, whatever, to let me know. But I'm not stopping!

I'm not even sure why I came on here to tell you all this. I just can't stop thinking about doing it and I feel like telling people.

Oh, I was also thinking about going after the G spot when I do this. About 1.5 inches or so in right? I should be able to feel it? I want to go after this spot while I'm sucking, and from what I am seeing it's more of a subtle vibration I need to get going, a slight back and forth or in and out motion, but not a real fucking per se, right on the spot.

I've never done it before, but I have good coordination, I'm a guitar player. I can handle it, seriously. I actually practiced the motions already!

Ok, one actual question. We are probably going to 69 at some point, becuase we keep getting into this thing about who is going to devour who first. How much different is eating pussy in this position? Is it harder for the girl to orgasm? Certainly I can't wait for her to suck me, but I want her to come and come hard. That's my goal!

I guess that's enough voyeristic sexual lunatic raving for now. Thanks if you made it through the whole post. I am as hard as a diamond in a snowstorm now.

Wish me fucking luck!

-DB