Oral Techniques 101

[Love2BLoved]

FINGERS! Oh yeah! The dual stimulation of tounge-on-clit and finger(s) in and out of the hole (either or both!) is the best!

[coveresid]

My wife likes to have fingers inserted in her vagina while I work on the clit with my mouth. Sometimes she will also ehjoy some fingering on the anal. Usually don't do any finger insertion there, but some of the time she likes a little finger up her anus.

[michelle2004]

In my opinion the harder the tongue can get the better....

And definately add some fingering in at the same time....

But be ready, because afterwards I will want to ride you like a horse in the Kentuckey derby!

[flames068]

i don't really know the parts too well. can someone post detailed labeled pictures?

[sera300]

Originally Posted by flames068

i don't really know the parts too well. can someone post detailed labeled pictures?

Try a Google search or look in a site which is Anatomy based...

[Ephemera]

Have her show you where her clit is.

It's the fastest way, really. Don't be embarrassed by it. Vaginas are like rubik's cubes.

[e_room_matt]

Again it's been said before, but every woman is different. As a general rule the my advice for going down is....

1. SLOW DOWN! If you are overpowing before she is ready, she will get numb and you'll be down there for a week. Women have to build to orgasm so slow down and get comefortable.

2. TEASE, TEASE TEASE! Women feel a loss of control when you are down there and some even feel distant. Teasing does a ton to build excitement (see above) and keeps things light. There is also a level of communication to teasing that women enjoy. It reminds them that they aren't all alone in the room and makes it easier to give up control because it is obvious you have it.

3. Spread lips to expose the clitoris fully. The more surface area you have to work with, the more she will feel.

4. Add action, particularly fingers on the G-spot as you go. Build your performance. Don't just go as hard as you can just because you feel like she needs to kick it into gear. Keep something in reserve for when she actually says "I'm gonna cum." Being able to start rubbing the g-spot rapidily once she reaches that moment can often trigger multiple orgasms.

5. SLOW DOWN!!! Enjoy your woman. Don't feel pressure to bring her to orgasm quickly and remind her not to feel pressured either (that makes it worse). Relax and even take a break if necessary. Proceed as if you are enjoying your favorite meal on a lazy day instead of wolfing down a burger when you are starving to death.

[BradSexpert]

Hello all - I have spoken to many women on this topic - and unfortunately lesbian and bi women have a heads up (literally!) when it comes to oral sex or cunniligus.

However men can be just as good - if they know what they are doing.

Cunnilingus is defined by oral stimulation of the female sex organ. When performed with sensitivity and enthusiasm, it can be a tremendously enjoyable experience for both parties involved.

One of the golden rules of cunnilingus is thoroughness. Consider applying the whole mouth to the task, and including the entire vulva. Be gentle and kiss and lick the area in turns. Don’t be afraid to very gently nibble, blow upon or kiss the outer parts of her vulva before “diving in”. (Never blow directly into the opening of the vagina, as this can cause an air embolism, which can cause injury, and - in rare, extreme cases - be fatal.)

Though the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the female sex organ, it is far from the most important aspect of the act. The clitoris, that small knob and it’s adjoining shaft nestled in between the labia, contains more nerve endings than the head of a penis. As such, a direct, vigorous approach to this sensitive aspect can easily be unpleasantly intense. Take the time to get to know her vulva, read her body language and really turn the act of cunnilingus into an exploration of her pleasure.

Hope that helps!

Brad

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[gierrmo]

Having read all of these post, one thing I do not see adressed is the givers breathing. I have read about some liking the light blowing, but I try to breath through my nose and try not to blow on her sensitive areas. My wife doesn't like the feeling of air even when incidental. Any comments? I think like many things it is based on the individual preferrence of the reciever.

[pokemon]

6 Oral Techniques :

1. The ABC Writer
This is a very popular technique whereby you spell out letters on her clitoris. Once you have spelled the letters until G. Remember to play with the pace of your stroke and as always, slow works best at the beginning.

2. The Sweeper
This is a pretty easy technique. Start by placing the tip of your tongue at either the right or left side of her clitoris. Then just move your tongue from the side to side as though you are sweeping a floor. Control the movement of your strokes. Start slowly and increase the speed gradually for maximum satisfaction.

3. The Vacuum Cleaner
This technique starts off with you placing your mouth at her clitoris. Then gently suck it in and out of your mouth. This will create a very strong sensation when she is having an orgasm, so make sure that she requests it before you execute this technique.

4. The Circle
This technique is one of the best oral sex techniques that you can use on her. Start by placing your tongue either at the left or right of her clitoris. Then move your tongue in either a clockwise or anti-clockwise movement. Make sure that you move your tongue around her clitoris only to create maximum pleasure and anticipation.

5. The 71
This technique also can be used when having intercourse. Sweep your tongue on the clitoris 7 times at comfortable interval (not too quick and not too slow), and 1 time sweep from the bottom to the top and pass the clitoris with a little squeeze. As you move from bottom to top, press your finger lightly against her perineum (the expanse of skin just below her vaginal entrance).
Repeat at least 7 times before change technique.

6. The Squeezing
Focus your tongue on the clitoris, just the clitoris, move your tongue round the clitoris, apply this technique only when you feel your partner is going to ejaculate, I think you should know when it will come. :-). The round moving is in a very small range, do it until you hear the sound "aaah.. or emmh.." out from her mouth. Yes she ejaculate.

For the best result, all these tongue techniques should accompanied with finger or hand jobs and other cunnilingus positions.

Caution: Never, under any circumstances, blow into a woman's vagina as though trying to fill it with air. Doing so is seriously dangerous. Blowing into a woman's vagina may cause an embolism and lead to death. Breathe on her; blow lightly on her; never ever blow into her.