Oral Techniques 101

[Ephemera]

Not really. Ask her to clean up down there.

Otherwise, suck it up! That's what I do, but, if you have a girl who knows how to keep things clean down there, it shouldn't be a problem.

[AlwaysRoomForPie]

I've got a got a bit of a problem going down on my gal that I hoped the ladies out there could help me address. The problem isn't with me doing it; in fact, if she didn't herself stop me, I'd probably only stop on complete exhaustion (you might say I enjoy myself). The problem is actually about her endurance. See, after about her third orgasm, she tells me that she's too tired from holding herself in a position for me to keep at it any longer. Usually by that point she's not too receptive to a new position, either.

So ladies, what sorts of positions work well for long bouts of receiving special attention? It'd be nice if they also gave me a good chance of going for awhile. And I'm curious... what's the largest number of orgasms you've all had from a single session?

[med4ladies]

AlwaysRoom, I give my gf oral almost everyday and I don't want to sound cocky, but I'm really quite good at it now. She gets prob around 4 orgasms every time I do it. I know where you're coming from, because my gf said the same things when we first started. Lately, I'll have her just lay down and put her legs around my head while I go to work. Idk if your gf does it, but mine will pull my head away once she has had about 2 orgasms because she thinks she has become too tired. About a month ago I began to use fuzzy handcuffs to hold her arms back and now she can lay there and take it for a really long time. Thats how I increased the oral time and made it more bearable and enjoyable for her. So that might help, if not you're more than welcome to ask more questions.

[Ephemera]

Share for us your technique, med4ladies.

We'd all like to know!

[merckmanuel2000]

Funny..... After leraning how to give the big "O" to my wife things changed....
Now when I go down on her and she reaches the peak, there is a short session of hard penetration but then her interest drifts away..... and I begin to feel like I am over staying me welcome......

[med4ladies]

I actually use a variety of techniques so that it never gets boring for either of us. Some I'll start off with just a few licks right up and down and then do a little penetration with my tongue. Then after a little of that just move up into the middle. I'll suck on the lips a little and do some flicks around the clit. This gets her enticed and starting to jump a little. Then once I can tell that shes startin to feel it, I'll begin to roll my tongue and do firm licks along the clit. Depending on her body langauge sometimes to get her really going, I'll use my hands and spread her and do a lot of firm licks and just keep going with that.
It depends on your girl's preferences but I will also sometimes try to finger her as well as lick. It gives a crazy double sensation for her. You just have to keep trying multiple techniques to see what she enjoys the most. One other technique I use which most people would never think of is I actually go in horizontally instead of vertically, if you understand what I mean. This technique has proven to let cover a larger area of her then the typical veritcal licks. When you're goin in horizontally I am able to hit her clit, lips, and the center of her vagaina all at the same time, which drives her crazy. usually causing her to grab my head and pull it in hard and closer. You're more than welcome to try these and see what it does, for mine she gets multiple orgasms, and please let me know how it works out for you.

[cakret]

in my opinion, cunninglingus if learned properly can make a girl have the most intense orgasims they have ever had, women i ehar do it better then us men, however, a women can do nearly everything a man can do, with hands and tounge, if a women can do it, a man can do it, i learned many ddifferent thigns from teh girls ive been with, and from some of my friends who are bi and lesbiens, my girl im with now was very sceeved out, about the idea, and she hadn't had an orgasim with anyone before, i told her, to trust me, and let me see if i can do what i had with my other girlfriends, after a while of fooling around, she asked me waht i wanted to do, i told her she was alittle skeptical but trusted me enough to let me do it, after only around 6 or 7 minutes, she had the msot intense orgasim, she had ever had, not only was it her first orgasim, but she had lost awareness, and blacked out for a bit. now, i only do it if she earnes it she loves it so much, i have learned to use it as reward system, there is also things she can do that i am rewarded for.

[Bigred70]

I love to give my g/f oral. But she gets there the best when i put my lips around my teeth and push my mouth down and use my tongue on her clit. But after a few times I do this in a week it cuts the inside of my lip. What can I do about this. Is there anything I can put over my front teeth??

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Bigred70

I love to give my g/f oral. But she gets there the best when i put my lips around my teeth and push my mouth down and use my tongue on her clit. But after a few times I do this in a week it cuts the inside of my lip. What can I do about this. Is there anything I can put over my front teeth??

A dental guard.

[Love2BLoved]

FINGERS! Oh yeah! The dual stimulation of tounge-on-clit and finger(s) in and out of the hole (either or both!) is the best!