Oral Techniques 101

[Luvs2plzU]

Originally Posted by bdfs05

ok. i am hearing allot about the g-spot and the clit. Ive never given oral sex but i was wondering if i did both of the techniques at the same time would that drive her crazy or would it not feel right?

In a nutshell yes...BUT...learn the basics first...be the very best at the basics...then you can add some pizzazz to the equation... ...so your first homework is to follow and perfect the techniques from this link...then move from there...hope this helps..
http://http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_cunnilingus.shtml

[Lovelyand18]

My boyfriend loves to lick my clit because I am can ejaculate that way. Although even though I ejaculate it does not feel that good. I don't know why I would think it would. Should just let him because he loves it or tell him I much rather him masturbate me?

[couriousgirl]

need a guys opinion on this....when my man is licking me is it good for me to hold open my pussy lips or not?

[TexasWeatherMan]

You don't have to hold open your lil lips. We love to use our fingers and tongue to give you as much sensation as possible, no need to get too many chefs in the kitchen!

[Lovelyand18]

I think I have opened them before but I'll check the difference. Maybe my clit just needs harder stimulation than a him licking it. Or I could have try some things a little different. Because I remember when I had girlfriend, it felt good when she did it.

[GKnapp]

ok so a couple times ive tried eating out my GF and i really dont like the taste or the smell, um is there anything i can do about this i really wanna do this cuz she gives me oral all the time, i heard if a women drinks cranberry juice it will lessen the smell but um ya what should i do??

[coveresid]

There isn't much you can do. If she has just had a shower, that is about as clean as it gets. If she is going down on you all the time, you better give her some good oral action. Don't screw up a good thing. Personally, I love the scent and taste. I just remeber the first few times I fingered a girl I found myself sniffing my fingers on the way home. Yes it is different, but so unique I think I feel in love with it then. Now, anytime I can get down there it is great. There are even times I refuse to wash my face just so I can be reminded of what I just enjoyed. I think if you keep after it, it will become something you crave for. The cranberry juice is not a bad idea to try, but I don't think it will do much. Happy licking.

[sportdork6]

Originally Posted by coveresid

There isn't much you can do. If she has just had a shower, that is about as clean as it gets. If she is going down on you all the time, you better give her some good oral action. Don't screw up a good thing. Personally, I love the scent and taste. I just remeber the first few times I fingered a girl I found myself sniffing my fingers on the way home. Yes it is different, but so unique I think I feel in love with it then. Now, anytime I can get down there it is great. There are even times I refuse to wash my face just so I can be reminded of what I just enjoyed. I think if you keep after it, it will become something you crave for. The cranberry juice is not a bad idea to try, but I don't think it will do much. Happy licking.

I also have been captivated by it since the first time I fingered my g/f. For me it is quite a pleasant scent and taste.

[sera300]

Some men just do not like the smell and the thought of going down there . I have found if they don't like oral they never will, it's just not for them. Just as men have a distinct smell so do women. The scent can change based on what point of her cycle she is in. Cranberry juice only serves to change the ph of the urine. A recent shower decreases the scent, and using a mild soap such as Ivory can help. Using perfumed soaps changes the scent, but not in a positive way, and if she puts any body lotions on it traps the smell, to me it begins to get funky--just a females point here. If I showered earlier that day, and then it looks like we are heading for the bedroom; I will use the bathroom quick and tidy up, just some mild soap & washcloth if I do not have time to shower or bathe before hand.

[Old Kid]

Just be sure to get the soap all rinsed off. Brought back memories of my ex. She would "tidy up" as you say & a couple of times there was some soap residue. Talk about getin your mouth washed with soap! LOL

BTW, my present GF seems to prefer haveing her inner lips licked from end to end. Doesn't seem to get much out of haveing her clit licked. Matter of fact, I don't seem to be able to find it or get it to stick out like other women I've been with. She loves having sex and says it feels great but I also have a hard time telling if she has orgasms or not. I know every individual is different, just wondering if this is very common. Perhaps I should just quit thinking about it?