Female Masturbation 101

[Tjdude]

for anyone who wants to learn some great technics on male and female masturbation, here is a great site:
Masturbation Technics and some other stuff
the site is in spanish, but there is a great flash animation program there about masturbation technics, just click on "Disfrutar del Sexo" then click on "Técnicas de Masturbación" then click on "Técnicas femeninas" (Female technics) or "Técnicas Masculinas" (Male Technics) and watch the show. The animations are realy explicit so it doesn't matter if you don't speak spanish.

[sexykitty]

Personally I think that the guys on here are acting like fools, sorry, but my opinion. You are mad because she won't pleasure herself??? What's up with that? I could see you complaining if she wouldn't touch your gear, but her own? Some chics just don't get turned on by touching themselves. There's nothing wrong with it and if you try to pressure her about it she will prob just get pissed and tell you to take a hike. I am 25 and do not masturbate. I also have a husband who I have absolutely terrific sex with and we do everything else imaginable, and he will masturbate for me because it gets us both off. He has said that it's a turn on, but he knows that I don't get enjoyment out of doing it, so it's not an issue. I have never had a guy get mad at me for not masturbating, seems so ridiculous. Get over it.

[JTee]

I'd never considered masturbating in front of a guy or watching him do it until my first year of college. My bf stayed overnight a lot and one night we went to bed and I wasn't "in the mood" so I turned over to go to sleep. After a while the bed started shaking. I rolled over and was shocked to see my boyfriend masturbating, unashamed, right there next to me. I was equally shocked that the sight of him doing that turned me on as much as it did.

It took a while before I could really masturbate in front of him, though. It started out with talking ... I told him that ever since I was a kid I have sometimes "turned myself on" by sitting on my foot and squirming my clit against my heel. I sit on my feet all the time though (like, now) and it's not always masturbatory, so he would never be sure -- but it was a turn-on knowing how carefully he was watching me and what he thought I was doing every time I sat on my feet! (He almost flunked a class we had together ...)

From there I told him about things I liked to do when I masturbate -- holding a mirror between my legs, using a vibrator, etc. .... And eventually it just seemed perfectly natural for us to masturbate in front of each other.

[mike]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ] I told him that ever since I was a kid I have sometimes "turned myself on" by sitting on my foot and squirming my clit against my heel.

Ha, I never thought about that. So all those girls who are always sitting on their feet could be...

[JTee]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (mike @ Aug. 28 2003,09:01)]Ha, I never thought about that. *So all those girls who are always sitting on their feet could be... *

Could be. *Or maybe they just like to sit bendy. Or maybe they have to pee. It's not for you to know ... *

[4loveonly]

I was in the same shoes with one of my girlfriends. *Do not buy a penis shaped vibrator. This can intimidate her because of the shape and size.

This is what to do:
Buy the following mini vibrating massager.
http://amoroustoys.com/catalog...._id=263 *

Next start giving her a massage with it. Start on her back, sholders, then move down to the feet and work your way up the back of the legs, then between her legs. The vibrations will arouse her extremly. If she is loving it then you can bring it close or on her clit.

After that leave the massager with her and she will start masterbating with it.

Good Luck
4loveonly
www.amoroustoys.com

[LuvinVanessa4]

Not to sound harsh or rude, but I think it's stupid how Mr. Love said he was gonna leave his g/f because she won't do anything like that, it's dumb to leave someone over something like that, cuz that's proving right there that you don't really love the person if your gonna leave them over something like that, some girls were built to do stuff like that and some weren't, to some it maybe a big deal, but if your gonna leave them over them not wanting to please themselves then your just immature. Sorry but it's true.

[Steelblazer65]

Have to admit...my "ex" wife would not masturbate for me because of the religious reasons....my current girlfriend does not masturbate. One of my fantasies is to be part of a masturbation group...

[laroxes]

It is a personal moment that we are allowed to watch & share. Knowing how our bodies feel when we reach a climax we can imagine the thrill going thru hers. It is a turnon for us, a very erotic sight. We guys almost wish that for that moment we could change places & feel what she feel. What a delight to have an exhibitionist all your own.

[ccblondie]

i love sex im a freak and into trying lots of things..but i still feel guilty about masturbating. ive done it by hand and vibrator and with one of my exs, but ive never came by it. my last bf told me to start doing it because i dont orgasm. does masturbating help to make orgasming easier?