Female Masturbation 101

[syn]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (xx22xx @ April 07 2003,09:20)]Why is it such a big deal anyway? *That's what I never understood...like why is it a turn on to guys to know or see girls masturbate?

You would change your mind if you ever layed back on the bed in a candlelit room and watched your guy please himself in front of you.

[Angelpie7070]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (jigga5787 @ April 05 2003,22:21)]why do some girls not fingure thereselfs some dont some do i dont no why any answers?

Girls get stimmulated in different ways. me, I don't really enjoy fingering myself as much as stimulating my clit. Everyone is different. Don't feel bad.

[Angelpie7070]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (cool macs @ Sep. 11 2001,01:10)]Is there an easy way to get a girl to touch herself? my gf won't, she won't try toys, and she's really dull in bed... if I can't find a way to bring her out of that idiotic religious closet, I can't go on with her....<p>Please help!

When me and my husband were first going out for a while he suprised me with a vibrator. I was shocked and felt uncomfortable but then got excited. I still have it and use it sometimes. I wouldn't pressure her if I were you. Just let her know that this bothers you a little and leave it at that. The more you pressure the more likely she is not going to want to do anything at all. Also how old is she?

[Hello]

well the biggest problem is her religion, and as much as i respect that people have the right to chose their religion, i think far too many people for get that they dont actually have a choice, as they are force fed religion form an early age. just think, u learn the languge ur speaking in becuase ever since childhood its what has been around you. in a religious family, religion is around u, and this seriously screws with the mind. can u imagine cavemen and women worrying that thery shouldnt be touvhing ourselves because it is not dignified? i certainly cant. but there is no way to get her to shun her religion. what you can do is show her the inadequecies of her religion, and how it has none of lifes answers, how it doesnt actually do anything that she cant already do with her mind. teacvh her subtly that religion is just a mind state which can be iunduced without any of the religious crap, and she will start to realise that everythign she has been taght by religion was just a method of iron fisted control, she will soon realise that she controls her body and her life, and so should do what makes HER happy, which will undoutably include great sex and her getting to know her own body

but u always gotta take out the bottom brick for something to tumble down, u wanna tumble her inhibitions, then u gotta remove the bottom brick, which is the control exerted by religion

[Kman007]

My girlfriend doesnt want to try it herself, yet she claims that even if she does she wont like it. How can I convince her otherwise.

[Dirrty LiL Duckie]

I'm a girl, and I dunno, masturbating in front of someone can be a very weird thing to some people, I dont think I'd be able to do it either.

[lovee]

im hearing that guys here love to watch their gf masturbating or even complain that their gf doesnt do it. when i did it in front of my bf, sometimes it turns him on but other times he finds it "disgusting"... hhhmmm.. any explaination?

[demonbuttercup]

sorry lovee
no idea here
the only way to find out is ask him
its not odd that he find it either a turn on or disgusting, just odd that sometimes he's one way and other times he's another.those are totally opposite reactions. i mean how are you supposed to know when its cool to do it or not?

[Vixen916]

It's probably something as simple as him not being in the mood for it. I like oral both recieving and giving but I know sometimes I just don't feel like it. I know both are completely different sexual acts, I just thought I'd give ya an example That's my guess, he may just not be in the mood

[lovee]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (demonbuttercup @ July 26 2003,09:58)]sorry lovee
no idea here *
the only way to find out is ask him
its not odd that he find it either a turn on or disgusting, just odd that sometimes he's one way and other times he's another.those are totally opposite reactions. *i mean how are you supposed to know when its cool to do it or not?

well, i just have to try, i will get the hint if hes not for it... nothing venture nothing gain