Female Masturbation 101

[Vencedor]

Amz69, don't worry too much. Arousal is all about mood and psychology, far more than the actual physical stimulation. You may just be putting too much pressure on yourself to orgasm when masturbating. I would suggest relaxing when you do it, and don't feel like you need to be able to orgasm straight away, just do whatever feels good. I wouldn't compare it to sex either; chances are the atmosphere will be a lot more exciting when you're having sex, which may be all you need to fix the issue.

[CLVR-HNDS_GUY]

Originally Posted by planetsalign

I had a girlfriend like that once, she wouldnt masterbate, she wouldnt let me go down, I dont even think shed ever had an orgasm in her life. This was much do to the way her parents spoke of it, and treated the idea of her and I doing anything together. I hope she finally got it figured out as her parents forced us to seperate after they found out we had pre marital sex.

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im finding alot more people are doing that, a girl at work found a guy who she was dating, she went to do things with him and he said that he was waiting for the right female
i kinda of agree with eek about the right person has to do it for you in that way
to me its 1930's stuff waiting for the right person to do it with
its bad as is it being a guy letting a nice respectable chick do it with her i believe, (not meaning paying for your first time to a female)

[itsreal]

Keep working with her if she that religion you has to slowly guide her into it if she never had that experience she dont know how it feel.You take her hand and slowly let her get the feel of whats going on.