Female Masturbation 101

[CLVR-HNDS_GUY]

pink menace,
to most or all guys, its hot watching a female masturbating or touching there while having sex or just doing it.
one way is to start doing things in the dark and learn that way, as you feel more comfortable and arent shy, try doing it in dim light and get brighter as you go along.
to me some guys know more about the female area then the females who have it
to me it seems some guys want to know more about females so they can help themselves learn and or each other on how to do it the right way which feels the best for her
being shy about things doesnt help and makes it hard otherwise

[sxcorsexxii]

i used to be like that...but then i opened up and started off by fingering myself when my ex bf wasnt home then as soon as he came home i stopped....that went on for awhile til i started buying vibes...omg they are awesome lol i used those when he was gone too...then i started feeling comfortable fingering myself in front of im and playing with vibes...but its all about if she feels comfortable or not...but lemme tell ya its alot hotter when you masturbate with her when my ex masturbated with me i came harder and faster...and the sex was amazingly awesome.

[catastrophic]

My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 3 years, now.
I have to say, the first time he ever tried to grab me down there, I was very skeptical but I let him do it anyways.
After a while, he started to go down on me and I have to admit, I didn't try to stop him lol.
That was about 10 months after we started dating.
The first time we ever had sex, was about a year and a half after we started dating and I was kinda shy at first, but now I'm the one asking for it from him lol.
He loves to watch me touch myself and knows that I'll try almost anything at least once.


The way he got me to touch myself was by bringing it up in a conversation we were having one night on the phone. He asked if I did and I was open with him about it. Told him everything. Then he made me promise I would do it in front of him the next time we were together and so I did. I must say the orgasm was more powerful in front of him than they usually are when I do it by myself. :]

[iwantyourbod84]

I did used to feel uncomfortable touching myself, but it's natural and harmless to me. although, I must admit, it's muchhh better when there's a male touch involved lol.

[Jase80]

Originally Posted by catastrophic

My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 3 years, now.
I have to say, the first time he ever tried to grab me down there, I was very skeptical but I let him do it anyways.
After a while, he started to go down on me and I have to admit, I didn't try to stop him lol.
That was about 10 months after we started dating.
The first time we ever had sex, was about a year and a half after we started dating and I was kinda shy at first, but now I'm the one asking for it from him lol.
He loves to watch me touch myself and knows that I'll try almost anything at least once.


The way he got me to touch myself was by bringing it up in a conversation we were having one night on the phone. He asked if I did and I was open with him about it. Told him everything. Then he made me promise I would do it in front of him the next time we were together and so I did. I must say the orgasm was more powerful in front of him than they usually are when I do it by myself. :]

Wow..I gotta admit...me and my girlfriend had sex after our fourth date when we had been together for 4 weeks. Our first time together we both gave each other oral and then had sex. But we had known each other for 11 months before we got together...we started as just friends.

[jackcollins]

juss let her be wt she is ,talk to her bout this ,but don't b forceful n if you are lucky she'll go for it

[ASHLEY-IS-THE-NAME]

i was one of those girls that was brought up not to have sex until i get married and all but one day one of my best friends sister was getting ready to take a shower and i didnt know she was in the bathroom and i walked in on her and she ran at me and closed the door before i could get out and she made me undress her and take a shower with her and she told her sister that i went home to eat dinner real quick and i had shower sex with a woman for my first time and did i turn that sex bible back around and started playing with myself at school at home and at the mall in the bathroom or the bed or the couch when no one was home and i ever masterbated on my parents bed i didnt care if i was feeling awhward about it i was pleasing myself and they dont know but i had an intense orgasam on their bed it felt great!!!

[johnnyhitt]

i had the same problem when we first got intamate with each other she would even want me see her get undressed but talkn to her and asking questions helped alot! Do Not tease! I tend to make jokes and loosen up the situation but this is one time not to tease or joke (at least for my wife) i send her sexual text and she is slowley doing the same for me im in the military and she has even gotten nude on the web cam for me while i was deployed to iraq so just hang in there and be very patient with her!

[KatNasty]

Great advice... some of the most prude women turn out to be freaky in the sack!

[its_legal@16]

why don't you talk just talk about it, and slowly mover her hands down there and just try slowly and surely and see hows she takes to it, kiss her and do it