Female Masturbation 101

[scumbag]

Originally Posted by cool macs

Is there an easy way to get a girl to touch herself? my gf won't, she won't try toys, and she's really dull in bed... if I can't find a way to bring her out of that idiotic religious closet, I can't go on with her....

Why are you asking for help when you already have a perfect solution to the problem?

[n_s10]

okay i've been having sex for like the past 4 months or so and i still haven't orgasmed. so that is a problem, but i understand that happens alot so im not too concerned.
so i bought a vibrator and im pretty sure im orgasming but i can't even tell. and this is so embarassing but i think i might even be peeing! if that isn't embarassing enough, its more embarassing that i don't even know!
when women orgasm, about how much comes out? i don't even have an idea. and is it normal if i actually am peeing? im just so embarassed by that. and i make sure to go to the bathroom RIGHT before too... so i don't understand. but theres no way that much comes out just from orgasm... i think.

[Morbid]

Um. Well, not all girls ejaculate from their orgasms.. Peeing when you orgasm isn't really "normal" if that is what you are doing. Is it a clearish liquid thicker than urine? That is usually what a woman ejaculates if she does. Another thing, how long or how exactly have you been pleasured while you've been having sex? Most women can't orgasm just by intercourse and need clitoris stimulation, have you tried this?

[mike2305]

hi my partner never masturbates, as far as i know, yet she will let me do it for her, and she even helps my hand find the right spot. why do you think she does not want to do it herself?

[dancingdoc2]

The reason females of the species do not masturbate as often as males seems to be directly related to the lower level of testosterone in their systems. This affects sex drive. Women also have other ways of handling stress, in addition.

[teeny]

have you ever heard of the Lady bug?well at first i was also hesitant to try one.what my boyfriend did was buy this vibrator called the Ladybug.when we were doing it,i never thought that he was also using it.it's so small you won't even feel it.after that,i tried using other types of vibrators.he got it from wantsomecandy.com.

http://store.wantsomecandy.com/

http://store.wantsomecandy.com/wantsomecandy-00018.html

[skinnyslav]

if a girl is shy about masturbating, a vibrator might scare her off. There are ways that are 1) not so scary and 2) that you could do for her. i found this great site that just lists great techniques for girls...
http://www.icame.com/female_masturbation_techniques.htm

if she refuses, dump her. nicely of course, but dump her all the same.

[osundayo]

ahh my bf says its not that sexy.!!

[Tarnished_Halo]

When I was a child I was taught that sex and touching yourself for pleasure was sinful and wrong. It really set me back in my sexual development (mentaly/emotionaly) I had to overcome a lot of religious programing in order to be able to even attempt experimenting with sex. It's never too late to learn and enjoy the wonders of your own body. I'm lucky enough to have a wonderful mentor who's well seasoned in the art of physical pleasure.

[Funlovingirl]

huh, i always thought that women having a lower sex drive was just a stereotype of society.