ok so i've been seeing this girl for nearly a month now, i've known her for nearly 2 years, we always laugh and have good times 2gether, and its been really good turnin our friendship into a relationship, loving all the making out and oral pleasure. i've just started to get comfortable about penetration and my confidence is getting better now.

now my gf is much more experienced than i am, she's a bit of a goddess in that way whilst i am still quite virginal. she's been really great with taking things slow for me, and we're learning about each others turn ons. mine are very different to hers, i am into just general turn ons, i have a few small fetishes and a bit of dirty talk is always good, but her turn ons are way different, she is into her pain whilst i am still new to it, she gets turn on by drawing blood, aswell as feeling like a rape victim.

i guess my question is how would i go about making her feel good and fulfilling her pleasures, as i feel very greedy as she's been doing things my way. do i slowly ween myself into the pain. an example is deep scratching, i never saw that as a turn on before, but i'm slowly getting used to it, and it does feel good after a bit of teasing.

i guess this whole thing for me really is i just wanna make my girl feel as good as she makes me feel.